you must be running your own biz and doing it very well to have time to see so many women

what was your bedminton success rate

am sure the guys here want to know and learn from master like you

minimally 30-50% success rate of all the girls with just personalities
you could technically reach above 50% assuming you've got your looks or logistics sorted out, provided with lucks

girls who are (some characteristics)
-younger than age 25
-divorce single mom (esp if they're more mature and have their own place)
-travel far to here and stay alone
-have had encounters with whites before
-often travel to work ie stewardess
(In short, look for cues like when a girl shit tests you A LOT, she has been with a lot of guys or could be having disorder)

there's also huge difference when you've property under ie mix development where there's a shopping mall under it (versus typically we drive quite far away to meet a girl), after finishing a coffee or dinner you can just ask her come up to your place

time management can be a thing if you want to be efficient, esp kl traffic jam is horrible

Once you've had achieved the number of lays you desire (along with the techniques, mindsets) you may start to slow down and start seeing some girls for more than months and build your relationship from there

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jul 27 2023, 11:50 AM

TS, it's normal if you already felt your conversations got dry after sometime, so does she, so she moved on. You should too.

there was once i did the whatsapp migration from old phone to new phone, any conversation in between during migration went missing.

i didnt bother to find out what was the missing conversation.

there are also occasions where i replied half way to someone and was to send more messages, but then i forgot about it due to some distractions

later more messages came in from others, and that person's conversations was pushed down further. So i totally forgot about it.

a few hours or sometimes a few days later, the person asked me about it, then only i remember

so many possibilities la...

This post has been edited by Blofeld: Jul 27 2023, 01:24 PM

was and still curious how u approach them, been trying to do the same but not sure how to start, true with that abundance mindset, girls dont like needy males

im not having issues interacting with females, but at the same time dont know how to ask them out

girls r like this, not to mean, but if ur not having wealth, body, house, cars etc, online dating is harder than f2f dating, online dating cant do shit apart from seeing the word typed, hard to get clues, f2f at least u can sense things when u guys are together and can make proper judgement

you have to read between the lines of what they're writing on the messages, that may take you awhile to realize that. You can rely on the indicator of interest shown to you, however if you do not understand yourself truly, you'll still send out stupid messages that dont serve any purpose

get the girl out asap
at least you've a small window to present your quality
a lot of guys have a wrong mindset that they need to make certain of money or lifestyle or good looks, before they are able to date

like who gives permission, other than themselves

Bumble? Then most probably you're not the only one who's chatting her up.

Just send her one last text to ask her if she's still interested to continue.

If no reply, don't text her anymore. Man the hell up and move the fcuk on... and when you have, show it to her face on your Insta.

Whatever you do, don't beg or appear needy. That is a death sentence for guys in the dating scene as girls spit on guys who are desperate.

I am wondering if you always bump into the girls/woman you have met when you hangout in shopping mall.....

ive bump into girls who semi rejected me on bed.
i just smile and sometimes they might text me back and ask me who's my friend with me particularly if she's more attractive than the target

one word........."GENG"

wana ask your opinion..

have you ever match those girls who has this kind of mindset " online dating full of scams and park boys, so i have to be careful and take it slow bla bla " ?? For this kind of girl, do you still minimize texting and try to meet up immediately? basically refering to the quote. Or when woman thinks that both side are having good conversation, or can clique, "take it slow " doesnt apply... hope you get what i mean..

those ie like newly divorced female have very strong feeling or hatred towards men, it can be a headache dealing with long term as they always ask for reassurance.

But it depends how much you like her, as long as she still replies to you just keep your minimal texting and if one day suddenly of any reason something about you spiked her immediate interest she will have urge to meet up with you

i think i asked out one girl who has had a bf more than 7 times in 1.5 years after matched her

just keep on texting different girls

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Aug 2 2023, 09:28 PM

For these criterion/standards, every guy or girls has his/her own sets of minimum requirement of "dateable" partner....
In my opinion, to have a higher success rate, the key point is to acknowledge your own value in each criterion before making a move....

she probably found a better fish she is more interested in. Just move on.

meet up as soon as possible, the chance decreases more the longer you drag, what's stopping you from seeing her at this "X" place?

All the advice seem to be very nice.

However nice advice wont make you grow as a man.

Its just a bunch of koolaide trying to take care of your broken heart feeling.

Kinda like among female friends where they fake sugarcoat compliment and take care of each other feelings.

You will never improve from that.

Reality my friend. Is much more bitter. Especially for online dating:



Your friend just met a smoking hot muscular Chad/Tyrone and getting run through…



Ill keep it simple. Interaction between man and women. If women are not attracted to you sexually. Shes gonna friendzone you. If you meet her and shes actually a landwhale, and theres no sexual attraction for you in her. Your gonna friendzone her.

How do you increase your chance to be sexually attractive. Its exactly the same how men attracted to the girls at first goance. The body.

So, gym up. Bulk your muscle up. Its not a sprint race. Its a marathon. Make it your routine. Minimum twice weightlifting weekly.

when she greenlight to meet
u gotta do it quickly
curious girls want action quickly
and there are many "abang" tat pandai ayat will get her to go out
once she makes a connection with another guy you're in the friendzone or phantomzone oredi

next pls