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post Jul 27 2023, 12:47 AM

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QUOTE(drug5 @ Jul 26 2023, 06:42 AM)
God damn… How u managed to go for so many dates and don feel fed up…
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I've had met up 259+ females at this point over almost 10 years of semi professional dating. I used to meet 4 different females per day from morning until 11pm like that. There are some people i know that have hit over 1000 different girls meeting

the thing is once you have experiences you'll view every girl as a sample to get better socially, ie what you can do better at each or end point of the interaction(s) along with the correct mindset to become abundant sea king

from there, you'll care lesser and have stable mood, any more reactions from the girls will not affect you because you knew what you wanted its very focused once you internalise the things you've done over and over
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post Jul 27 2023, 11:39 AM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Jul 27 2023, 08:14 AM)
you must be running your own biz and doing it very well to have time to see so many women

what was your bedminton success rate

am sure the guys here want to know and learn from master like you
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minimally 30-50% success rate of all the girls with just personalities
you could technically reach above 50% assuming you've got your looks or logistics sorted out, provided with lucks

girls who are (some characteristics)
-younger than age 25
-divorce single mom (esp if they're more mature and have their own place)
-travel far to here and stay alone
-have had encounters with whites before
-often travel to work ie stewardess
(In short, look for cues like when a girl shit tests you A LOT, she has been with a lot of guys or could be having disorder)

there's also huge difference when you've property under ie mix development where there's a shopping mall under it (versus typically we drive quite far away to meet a girl), after finishing a coffee or dinner you can just ask her come up to your place

time management can be a thing if you want to be efficient, esp kl traffic jam is horrible

Once you've had achieved the number of lays you desire (along with the techniques, mindsets) you may start to slow down and start seeing some girls for more than months and build your relationship from there

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post Jul 27 2023, 08:00 PM

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QUOTE(HokkienMee_Lover @ Jul 27 2023, 03:52 PM)
was and still curious how u approach them, been trying to do the same but not sure how to start, true with that abundance mindset, girls dont like needy males

im not having issues interacting with females, but at the same time dont know how to ask them out
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you have to read between the lines of what they're writing on the messages, that may take you awhile to realize that. You can rely on the indicator of interest shown to you, however if you do not understand yourself truly, you'll still send out stupid messages that dont serve any purpose
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post Jul 27 2023, 08:02 PM

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QUOTE(Chaud @ Jul 27 2023, 04:13 AM)
problem when knowing someone from dating app

she probably matched someone else more interesting
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get the girl out asap
at least you've a small window to present your quality
a lot of guys have a wrong mindset that they need to make certain of money or lifestyle or good looks, before they are able to date

like who gives permission, other than themselves
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post Jul 28 2023, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(justapawn @ Jul 28 2023, 11:34 AM)
I am wondering if you always bump into the girls/woman you have met when you hangout in shopping mall.....
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ive bump into girls who semi rejected me on bed.
i just smile and sometimes they might text me back and ask me who's my friend with me particularly if she's more attractive than the target
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post Aug 2 2023, 09:27 PM

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QUOTE(siew14 @ Aug 2 2023, 05:36 PM)
wana ask your opinion..

have you ever match those girls who has this kind of mindset " online dating full of scams and park boys, so i have to be careful and take it slow bla bla " ?? For this kind of girl, do you still minimize texting and try to meet up immediately? basically refering to the quote.   Or when woman thinks that both side are having good conversation, or can clique, "take it slow " doesnt apply... hope you get what i mean..
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those ie like newly divorced female have very strong feeling or hatred towards men, it can be a headache dealing with long term as they always ask for reassurance.

But it depends how much you like her, as long as she still replies to you just keep your minimal texting and if one day suddenly of any reason something about you spiked her immediate interest she will have urge to meet up with you

i think i asked out one girl who has had a bf more than 7 times in 1.5 years after matched her

just keep on texting different girls

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