Please don't misunderstood a toxic relationship with a cheat. These 2 are not inclusive of each another.

My friend said that once one side cheats, the relationship becomes toxic. Is it true?

Toxic is different and have many forms:
1) 1 side abuse the other side (verbally or physically)
2) Both side kept fighting and instead of motivate each other they demotivate each other

Relationship with cheating but not toxic:
1) Both side cheats but still stay together for various reasons.
2) 1 side cheat (normally guy side) but the other side do not mind (the one that's really ok with it).

These are just SOME examples, there may be more

U forgive but never forget

Forgiving is always easy. How long it takes to trust again remains for another topic. You may be the cause of why it happened, but never allow that to be the reason why cheating is ok because it isn't. If you weren't good enough, the cheater should call it quits instead of justifying reasons why he/she cheated. He/she took the easy way out to seek physical and/or emotional relief.

You may reflect on yourself, for improvements, but don't take the blame for it.

How to continue to love when there is no more trust!?

i screen and communicate properly before going into a ltr, via this way i dont need to be always cautious seeking for signs of danger. Not only you discover about yourself, you are also looking for a better quality partner that can stand the test of time

Regardless becomes toxic or not, its being responsible and accountable for each choice we made.

because it hurt a lot , not easy to forget , hard to move on but we need to move on

as i said we never forget because a wolf will never change its skin.

If He/She did it once, means they can do it twice. People like these already have that mindset where cheating is a "normal" thing to do.

Best he leave and stay out of contact.

easy way out?

if the person cheats once, whats to prevent them from cheating a second time?

toxic relationship people can try and mend (not easy but can try)

cheat? how to mend? let your partner check your phone? always ask permission before go out? need to have video call?

depends, some said forgive n forget, but most people can hardly forget, to forgive is to face the reality and move on, no point holding on something in the past

i personally will not forgive, but soon i will forget, of course it will hurt in the beginning, but life has so much bullshit going on, you're going to forget it in a year and seeking new goals

move forward bros, it will be better

Always be willing to walk away…

She cheated and you dont drop her ts?

Your a dead man walking my friend…

Woman hypergamy is vicious.

Their constant mindfuk shit test thrown at you game is to seek the highest value men with toughest and almost heartless emotion stoic guy.



Guys with many dating exp, many ex gfs, wife….

Checkout minute 23 onwards…

Tell me from your own experience is he BS or spitting facts? 😅😏😏

This post has been edited by max_cavalera: Sep 27 2023, 04:08 PM

definitely dropping that cheating bitch, but to forgive, that depends, i will forget sooner or later but no way im gonna reconcile with her

yes it's hard to forget cause it will be there forever in your mind

no because people don't change.

if a close relative love to borrow money from you and don't return.

You would be angry right?

U forgive but u don't forget because u won't want to lent money to that relative, right?

right

To stay on with her may invite more misery .

Totally NO for me coz when you know she cheated on you, the trust between you guys is no longer available. Real life example for myself, my ex is a host on a platform call sugarbook , but one day i found that she having a sugar daddy and the guy bought her many luxury things, when i realise this issue, she told me she really cheating on me and ask for forgiveness, but once trust broken, you can't go back anymore.