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 Forgiveness on a Cheater, Let's discuss

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TSredracer2004
post Jul 23 2023, 11:11 PM, updated 3y ago

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Today a friend talked about forgiveness. He said if his partner cheated on him once, he will forgive her but he will leave. He feels that leaving the toxic relationship is a way to forgive a person.

In my argument, it's more to just finding an easy way out of things.

What do you all think? Can you all totally forgive a cheater?
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post Jul 24 2023, 11:26 AM

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QUOTE(Hades76 @ Jul 24 2023, 09:34 AM)
Forgive then leave the relationship. I am sure its hard to build the trust and will be walking on eggshells later on.
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But how you forgive when you already left? It's like you say forgive but you still feel the hurt from the cheating. That's not forgiving.
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post Jul 24 2023, 08:04 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jul 24 2023, 04:08 PM)
agree, women tie sex with love a lot. If she decides to give herself mentally to someone its about time to hook up, she already chose to leave the bf or husband long time ago (disrespect), but its just an explanation from a traditionalist standpoint.
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What if she is lieing about emotions part but actually got? How can you tell?
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post Jul 25 2023, 04:40 PM

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QUOTE(a_dot_el @ Jul 25 2023, 03:53 PM)
Please don't misunderstood a toxic relationship with a cheat. These 2 are not inclusive of each another.
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My friend said that once one side cheats, the relationship becomes toxic. Is it true?

 

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