there is no meaning of life, only u can give it a meaning

Doesn't matter.

Janji kongkek.

According to "Su Nv Jing," the optimal frequency of ejaculation changes with age.


For people in their 20s, once every 4 days is recommended,
7 time in 1 month


while for those in their 30s, once every 8 days is optimal.
almost 1 time per week


At age 40, it is suggested to ejaculate every 16 days,
1 months only 2 times


and at age 50, every 20 days.
1month 1 time

For individuals over 60, it is advised to refrain from sexual activity,
but if they are still healthy, once a month may be acceptable.


do you agree?

Weakens immunity

Excessive sexual activities weaken the body’s natural immunity. The hormone prostaglandin E-2, which serves an important function in sexual arousal, is overproduced when one engages in marathon or excessive sexual activities and has an inflammatory effect on the body by;

damaging tissues, nerves and joints,
weakening immunity,
causing muscular and nervous pain, and
promoting infection, inflammation, and even cancer.

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 19 2023, 10:21 PM

do you still keep your sg pr?

breakdown of the population of Singapore based on the figures you provided:

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Population Group

Estimated Population

Percentage

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Citizens .............

3.52 million...........

...........62.0%

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Permanent Residents

0.52 million

...............9.1%

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Non-residents ...........

.....1.64 million...

...........28.9%

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Total Population ...........

....... 5.68 million....

...........100.0%

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https://www.singstat.gov.sg/census2020/census-2020

https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/p...lation2022.ashx


https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/c...n-pamphlet.ashx

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 19 2023, 10:41 PM

Doesn't quite matter about the SG PR.

Lee Kuan Yew's son PM Lee already don't like me la.

😭😭

No part is all THAT different from the other parts, as long as we learn and live our lives with an upright heart and don't harm other people as much as possible.

NOW a quite important meaning of my life is to teach my sons this "NEVER ever blame another person for your perceived suffering because you will end up also blaming God which includes yourself. Always always remember 一山更比一山高, when you are comparing yourself with someone else, there's always someone out there who is having a more difficult time or life than yourself."

For example me (their mum). When I was young my mum sent me to Kampung Glam community centre in SG to learn dancing under a lady called 严众莲老师。She's a strict teacher with high standards for her students and even though she was said to teach us Chinese dance, she's a modern dancer who also taught us her students important ballet moves such as the five feet positions.

She also took out some time to ask about our school results because she also wanted her students to not forget our school work. I remember when she told us to sit down and asked us what position we got in class. When it was my turn, I was silent as usual and merely pointed my right forefinger. I think she felt a bit incredulous?? 🤣🤣

There was once when I was also one of the performers for this dance she choreographed and named 冰释 "Ice melting". (Let me state upfront: I definitely wasn't one of the more naturally talented dancers in class, because my bones are stiff and my ears are actually naturally tone deaf?? But I would say that I definitely worked hard because I wanted to please all my parents, elders and teachers. There was this particular move which teacher couldn't find the four girls to perform a somewhat difficult move involving a somersault plus a bend over from the waist down. I knew about it and practised in secret. When I felt that I finally could master it, I showed it to a friend in class. So events developed that this friend told teacher in front of everyone else and she made me show her. Even though I wasn't exactly perfect at that time, but I guess it was sufficient for her requirements. So I ended up in this dance performance.)

That time I think it was at Victoria concert hall?? We were dancing this 冰释 dance when stupid old me fell flat on my face (because the costumes were actually a little complicated and teacher also required that we danced on bare feet. In order to create this performance of ice melting there were also machines on the stage which were puffing out fumes to create the idea of condensation or evaporation?? So the stage was actually a little slippery and I slipped.). I got up to my feet but was rendered totally confused as to what the other dancers were doing. So imagine me on stage 东张西望 looking here and there for I think it was close to an entire minute?? (At the same time had the feeling that ALL the spotlights on stage were on me, including the few thousands eyes of the spectators!! In short I panicked.) Then I finally figured out which point of the dance the other girls were doing and managed to join them.

After that when I went back to class, I was scolded upside down by my teacher. And up to today I don't blame her. I mean WHY. How come none of the other girls fell down? And why?? Why should my teacher be made to (I imagine la) sit among the few hundred (or even a thousand) spectators gripping her seat in tension watching me (her stupid student) turning my head here and there, left and right, possibly wondering to herself "what more surprises is this 笨蛋 gonna add to my dance??"

And also: never, NEVER ever 自作多情。Because 天若有情天亦老，自作多情空遗恨！

https://www.des.org.sg/traces/





诗歌：
鱼儿那么信任水，
水却把它煮熟了。
树叶那么信任风，
风却把它吹落了。
我本那么信任你，
你却把我伤害了。

后来的我发现了，
煮熟鱼的不是水，
是水火不容的火。
吹落叶的不是风，
是风的自由自在，
和秋天无孔不入。

伤害我的不是你，
是我的自作多情！

I have also NEVER once said to my kids "I expect you to get good grades because it's for your own good". I feel that's giving them stress and high pressures. I believe in 顺其自然 and even if they scored last position in class, I will tell them this "it's also number 1, counting from the back." And then if necessary, sit down with them to understand and analyse the reason(s) behind their poor performance.

It's not shameful to fail in life. It will ONLY become a shame if you failed to pick yourself up and TRY. Try and try again. It's your CHOICE.（而且 “人比人逼死人” 的意思是：你输了，心理就难以忘怀（难以平衡），你赢了，也同样难逃 “骄兵必败” 的 沾沾自喜。” 所以尽可能不要跟别人比较比赛挖鼻孔，最后还可能挖到流鼻血！）

And even if at the end of the day, you still haven't succeeded, at least you can say to yourself "At least I have given it ALL I have got and tried my very BEST. 我对得起昨日的我，当下的我和明日的我 = 我对得起天地良心。”

Take for example this case: https://www.nst.com.my/news/nation/2023/04/...xams-third-time

Law student after failing his exams the third time set himself on fire at the petrol station in an attempt to commit suicide. WHY. I think this kinda thinking and decision is actually worse than failing his examinations, no? If I were him (or his parents) I would probably tell him: never mind, go learn a skill or technique such as car repairing or even work as an apprentice at the car accessories shop. Give yourself a chance in LiFE. And when you are 50 or even 60 years old, if you still wanna try THAT law exam, then you go try again. You will DEFINITELY 101% pass with flying colours!

活到老，学到老。人生的意义就是如此而已。

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 22 2023, 06:03 PM

I went to a cell group gathering brought by Mia's mama yesterday. This is the second time I attended. The first time was at Li Ann's house (yesterday was at Melissa's house).

The short sermon was on this topic:
https://www.marquette.edu/faith/reflections...th%20Samaritans.

Yesterday the pastor in the video recording said that because of the cultural norms at THAT time, many women got 休妻 by their husbands because of infertility. THAT could be one of the reasons why she had had six men altogether. But this webpage here gave yet another possible reason.

Whatever it may be, Jesus as God found enough value in her to approach her because He wanted to save her soul??

I think I finally figured out this: I'm also not sure if I was filled with 恨（恨铁不成钢，亦或是恨他恨自己恨全天下的所有人事物 etc）. Or else maybe I wasn't even sure if I was worthy of the RESPECT and KINDLINESS the 老夫子 in the SPF had shown to me??

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 22 2023, 06:03 PM

Very good post

Simi old teaching is this?
Unker priest..

Thanks for your approval.

Hope you have a great weekend ahead!!

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5367372&hl=


any suggestion?


now i ask her date of presentation, cause this month need to submit any day of block ot.

need to go kl for presentation


i work 4 day rest 3 days


sun - wed or sun - tue is my working day

other is rest day

she never reply the teacher.....

Already given you my responses in your thread.

NOW IS WEEK 11


i just block 4 days of week 13


hope she can get the date

Convocation??

If she's having problems finding her motivation, maybe you can try ask her which subject she is MOST interested in or can score higher marks.

Just gotta tone down a bit on the calling her lazy (lousy or crazy) parts.

We don't want the situation to develop to the point where she might accuse her family members of adding insult to injury making her even less motivated than before. Or even more disheartened AND discouraged.

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 22 2023, 05:49 PM

Right now, the meaning in my life is listening to music like this when driving:



For some reason don't particularly like Joyride by Roxette.

Finally i found it.
Meaning of life to me is


Live
Learn
Work
Play


Like sp setia berhad


I want to train my muscle.....

Withib 6 month.
Until 31 december should have effect

Convocation should be september or october


This is just school study week