Quite curious how u spend quality time with ur wife?
What kind of activities that u all did to strengthen bonding while engaged daily work?

I’m talking about genes, cannot be everybody’s gene the same, we dont have predator hunting us but some genes will be discarded from the gene pool because women do not select them

In fact beta-ness could very well be a reflection of genetic make up, I don’t know why women run away from me but I was simply pointing out possibilities

It’s ok to not have the best looks in the world, but u have to learn to be presentable through other means like fashion and stuffs, most girls would notice that, if u don’t do that, that’s on u

As for money, u attract gold diggers, but they won’t last long, so not really that important as compared to presentability and personality

Closest examples I have seen are some influencers have not so good looking bf, but they Definitely look presentable undeniably, but I don’t if they are together because of money, but def presentable, and or personality

Face problems?

Not loaded?

Even face prob and not loaded rempits can score girls

You need to build a character and your way with words

Rempits is bad boy,girls love bad boys

Women has an internal scoring system for potential partners..

The scoring is subjective and can change over time.

But they look for the best overall score they can get.

https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=RX0GpfsU8B6SVVSe

On phone, can’t embed it without error

This video explained it pretty well, through graphs format, however u do need some time to understand the graph

You forgot 1 little thing, your car is a SUV and not the sporty looking suave car that chics dig. I drive an Aruz, an SUV and many chinese chics call my call ugly. They said the value is important but the looks of it lagi important.

Anyways, for 3 weeks now I have been officially dating my new gf so I am happy.

My comment was directed to the "ada wang ada amoi" belief. Money is an advantage, but it shouldnt be the only game a guy has to attract a girl. And yes, men also has their own scoring system and its very much more skewed to the physical. Men in general dont care about a girls  finances/resources. Women care more abt resources but they also care about the physical.

I also agree on your above post when you say women need to feel "safe". This is very important for a guy to fufill. But safety on its own is too boring. A guy need also to inject some mystery, suprises and excitement as well.

Exciting but safe, is the way to attract. Bad boy and nice guy. Yin and yang.