Sadly, credit card may just mean owner is heavily into debt and on AKPK

Looks may get the opposite party interested initially but it will take a lot more than looks to keep the other party interested

Companionship I guess, and hopefully someday it’ll translate into something more meaningful. Isn’t that the usual thing?

Yes you are right. Marriages are down in numbers everywhere in the world.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife even after 30 plus years, but who knows, if I were to do it all over again….

… oh, in my case, I’d probably still end up with her hahahaha.

If that’s your primary concern then a friend would serve your purposes just fine without the baggage.

Then, don't just say all you want is to share feelings and stuff la... you're obviously hoping for something more Good luck !

Or TS could subscribe to dodgy philosophy like some here and just work on TS’ smooth operator skills, to heck with either looks or money….


… according to some, that is sure win method?

Hehe. Life is very, shall I say, materialistic…. At the end of the day, when all is said and done, money talks and you know what walks.

No certain outcome in the game of life or love, but advantages can be stacked in favour of those with the resources.

A wealthier person has the ability to draw upon his internal confidence - if he made it via his work, business or investment, he can use those same lessons to make it elsewhere - hence the saying success breeds success and money makes more money.

Personally I find it distasteful because it takes away the meritocratic element of fairness, but you only need to look at real life where the datuks and the tan sris strutting about with their trophy wives or girlfriends to know that, sadly, this is how the real world works.

I don’t like it, I don’t think it’s inherently fair and I still believe that hard work and character should account for something, but I fear that is just my wishful and wistful thinking.

What do you think?

Maybe the Datuks took lessons from our resident /k playa… hahaha

Some of us prefer not to give in to base instincts

RM140k… what car did you buy?

Well, at least you got to enjoy your new ride

Bro, amois/aweks/minachis that don’t see life and relationships in material terms will not be swayed by whatever it is you drive.

Amois/aweks/minachis that do view life and love in material form will require more than a RM140k car to excite them.

Sorry bro, but in their world, what you purchased was neither here nor there….

I am sorry that your prospective target begged to differ.

Here’s a little paradoxical mystery…. I drive a respectable car, which, for all intents and purposes, would make me quite attractive to women.



But, I can’t understand why waifu (who is obviously a woman herself) would dislike my car so much…. preferring that I drive the Cayenne SUV that we have as a second car, instead.

Dunno man… it’s quite a nice car, the 911 GTS.

So, my opinion is that what works for one girl will not work for another. Haha.

This post has been edited by hksgmy: Jul 4 2024, 03:45 PM

A general rough (but oddly reassuring) guide is that men experience an uptick in their attractiveness with career maturity and financial stability later in age and life, but women have their biological clock ticking loudly against them naturally because well, gravity sucks in more ways than one.

But the only girl that has the keys to my heart is her.

She prefers the comfort of the Cayenne’s air suspension system, but bless her heart, she knows I love my 911 so she’s trying hard to warm herself to the 911’s much firmer suspension system and go for those drives with me.

It’s a matter of compromise between 2 persons who’ve been together for over 30 years.

You don't mince your words, you also don't miss your target.