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Sep 14 2022, 07:12 PM, updated 2y ago
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Sep 14 2022, 07:49 PM
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Let us know your personality/behaviour first. It cant be only quiet as you have mentioned that you were labelled as weirdo. kitsunegeisha liked this post
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Sep 14 2022, 07:52 PM
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apply for SPA to get government job. either be a teacher/lecturer/ PTD or be government engineer gred J41.
it will help build your confidence and social skill better |
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Sep 14 2022, 07:56 PM
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you may try to sign up therapy/consultation sessions with counsellor to help you
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Sep 14 2022, 10:58 PM
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I also like you but SPM kids only. Middle age. People might think i am weirdo because i think and speak like ruler and bad at social skill so can be perceive as quite. Since i have no degree so have to go construction route. Salary kinda good tho at 3000++ include allowances after deduction. I personally prefer It tech or technical job but because i have more construction experiences so boss kinda make me to deal with site customer although my title is supervisor only. Stress AFK.
I think the best job for you that require no interaction. Maybe software engineer. Need to find whats wrong, run a debugging software. Need solution, just have virtual chat at stack overflow forum |
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Sep 15 2022, 12:00 AM
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QUOTE(viole @ Sep 14 2022, 07:49 PM) Let us know your personality/behaviour first. Oh not literally a weirdo, some where along the line of this guy always work alone, this guy cannot speak clearly etc etc and you eventually build up a reputation of being the odd one then attract bullies, contractor environment is more like school so tend to inspire bulliesIt cant be only quiet as you have mentioned that you were labelled as weirdo. |
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Sep 15 2022, 12:07 AM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Sep 14 2022, 10:58 PM) I also like you but SPM kids only. Middle age. People might think i am weirdo because i think and speak like ruler and bad at social skill so can be perceive as quite. Since i have no degree so have to go construction route. Salary kinda good tho at 3000++ include allowances after deduction. I personally prefer It tech or technical job but because i have more construction experiences so boss kinda make me to deal with site customer although my title is supervisor only. Stress AFK. That’s what I’m doing at the tech (technology) job, it is pretty manageable, pretty much the same you been doing in schools, don’t know then google then execute and repeatI think the best job for you that require no interaction. Maybe software engineer. Need to find whats wrong, run a debugging software. Need solution, just have virtual chat at stack overflow forum Other jobs I had people are intolerant of any sign incompetence shown during meetings etc, not sure whether is because tech job has more young people compared to construction Despite all the negative opinions against younger generation, I find younger people easier to work with, speaking as a person who changed countless jobs |
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Sep 20 2022, 09:24 PM
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Sep 20 2022, 09:27 PM
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Sep 21 2022, 01:11 AM
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QUOTE(somewhataut @ Sep 14 2022, 07:12 PM) have a degree in engineering, been working a few years, i lost count of how many jobs i changed, primary reason is social skill issue, consider me autistic. what kind of work do you do as an engineering consultant?My working experience - Contractors: worked for a few contractors, i get famous as a weirdo in each one of them, i resigned from them within a few months Consultant: worked for 2 consultants. got fired from 1, the boss said my people don't want to work with me. resigned from 1 because people say boss no assign job to me cuz i look like idiot. Facility manager at mall: People complain i too quiet during lunch, i resigned Tech: a career switch, getting paid 2k internship salary, promised a salary higher than i have ever drawn after 1 year. The workforce is very young and i am the among oldest, the job has a lot freedom, people don't have the typical corporate behavior here and people rarely care about others. My personality seems to be acceptable here because no one cares about each other. The company receives grants/projects, assign to each of us, we do our own researches on how to do and do our own thing I have no tech background, not sure how sustainable is this employment and not sure how serious is the promise and i actually kind of like consultant job so I applied for draftsman at consultant thinking my autism won't hinder much but the boss gave me engineer position So should i continue the tech internship or go for the consultant job? again? I only like my tech job because of the freedom engineer at consultant has risks cuz the interviewer emphasized meetings etc. I haven't been completely honest about my personality and history. I think my behavior is acceptable to the tech company, i don't think traditional workplace can accept or other career strategies? currently late 20s |
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Sep 21 2022, 08:56 AM
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Sep 21 2022, 11:30 AM
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Sep 21 2022, 11:33 AM
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QUOTE(anakkk @ Sep 21 2022, 08:56 AM) drug alone will not solve most of the mental health issue, The drugs makes me feel slightly better in terms of mood and being ease, but my autistic behavior hasn't changedyou may need to go for CBT, mindfulness classes like meditation, self affirmation classes, inner child classes and so on I heard CBT is useful, but the doctor every time repeat the same questions like how you feel, any side effects, then continue drugs, change amount occassionally psychiatrist thinks is depression, not autistic spectrum, i been on drugs for months, still autistic |
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Sep 21 2022, 01:01 PM
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I've been there, maybe not bad as you
you need to let out your repressed emotions i bet you have a lot of anger and frustrations, consider going to the gym i became a new person after i regular gym and don't worry about what other people think, they don't, its not in their best interest to think about you |
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Sep 21 2022, 11:33 PM
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Sep 22 2022, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE(earshore @ Sep 21 2022, 11:33 PM) Well the ones i got fired from, i haven't done much, replied client emails, did some energy studies for senior, reproduced some drawings, and filing housekeeping, boss said people don't want to work with me and my performance is lowThe one i resigned from, i only changed some drawings, convert drawings to pdf, a few days later i overheard boss no assign job to me cuz i look like idiot |
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Sep 22 2022, 12:19 PM
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QUOTE(BonBonvoyage @ Sep 21 2022, 01:01 PM) I've been there, maybe not bad as you Anger and frustration? Why? The tantrum-prone behaviour you saw in some people is those on extremity of autistic spectrum, or Asperger or Down syndrome, I’m not thoseyou need to let out your repressed emotions i bet you have a lot of anger and frustrations, consider going to the gym i became a new person after i regular gym and don't worry about what other people think, they don't, its not in their best interest to think about you I don’t care about what other people think, others caring too much about me is precisely the reason of my struggle, for example I didn’t think staying quiet during lunch time is a huge deal, apparently it bothers people who do care. And people don’t want to work with me because they care something about me |
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Sep 26 2022, 03:23 AM
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Stay in tech. As long as you don't move up the ladder too much, you can work on your own and solve problems without much human interaction. Once you start moving up, you'll require more human interaction and people skills.
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Sep 26 2022, 11:59 PM
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Sep 27 2022, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(thesoothsayer @ Sep 26 2022, 03:23 AM) Stay in tech. As long as you don't move up the ladder too much, you can work on your own and solve problems without much human interaction. Once you start moving up, you'll require more human interaction and people skills. Junior engineer cannot? I don’t just behave like autistic, something wrong with my appearance which is why some of them said I look like idiot, traditional workplace tend to be mean and judgemental Staying tech got issues too actually, like salary not sure how long they will keep giving internship pay grade My life so damn struggling, meaningless like oku but no oku compassion |
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