yes, u won't get more than 2 hours continuous sleep for a few months. if you lucky and your baby is cooperative, u may get longer hours sleep after 3 months but if u unlucky, it may last 6 months or even longer

it's life changing and no amount of advice u receive can prepare u for fatherhood. is it worth it? yes totally. u may not be able to see it at first but over time u will

they actually promoted as 6stars confinement center.

Can share more experience on this issue?

1) When it can happen? Before delivery or after delivery
2) Any prevention method or by pure luck?
How much is the cost if this shit happens?

We are hunting for confinement centre now too. Apparently the cost around 13k-18k depends on how luxury you want it.

Damn so expensive.

Luckily my dotter born during lockdown time. I ownself did everything

i just take care my wife at home.
i do the cooking and house chores.
but i understand other people got other commitments
luckily she giving birth normally no need operation

Be vigil...when your wife reach 8 months, monitor progress, ask doctor to teach her to reach finger feel vagina, to measure how big opening (please check with doctor, don't take my word for it)
read books
can reduce risk but can still happen

go recce the hospitals and check their costs
private ones may be more well prepared
govt hospital, free but be ready to take risks, and probably may have to suffer in long wait...
its around 10k
but those in prince court would like be much higher
again u pay according to the service levels
buy insurance cover for baby (but if nicu, only cover hospital bedding = no of days)

confinement center vs confinement lady

ask around, check internet
I got mine from my sis in law
sometimes close recommendations help, because you know the confinement lady did a good job
about confinement center - i have no experience, i never went through them b4

These days
No have 30k for antenatal care, birth medical fees ( cheap if natural labour or more expensive if C section and depending on the hospital whether branded private or non branded) then the confinement.
Better not pancut dalam.
My two kids, both taken of care by traditional confinement ladies, they cooked and looked after the baby while she rested. We were fortunate to have a maid then so she just cleaned. It was a while back when it only cost 3k for 4 weeks of work.

you yourself have not gone thru it yet

but sounds like you think you already qualified to advised other on what they should do


hire maid for confinement?

do you even know what is maid's responsibility? vs baby sitter vs confinement lady?

you think its all the same thing?

ayam already book CL
day time service only for 30 days
cost: 10k++

use the same CL my sister use before as she having good track record

Early this year. Paid about 8k for 40 days. The confinement lady stay at our home. Jaga baby, prepare pantang foods, kemas rumah, massage, sauna, etc.

This post has been edited by POYOZER: Jul 22 2022, 01:17 PM

then my daughter must be an angle. she gets cranky now only the 2 hours before her sleep then after that will sleep through out the night till morning.. 5th month now.

first 3 month.. totally no crying hysteria crying or what so ever.

Got catalog?

u r lucky then. count your blessings.

mine only stable after 1 year

????

its not even me saying it what?

yah man cause from the description of my colleagues they have sleepless nights and it was hell before their baby got up to a certain age.

at least my wife has a great time taking care of her now.

RM5488 - Johor

Single bed - i bring my own foldable bed there to sleep on floor sometimes.
Shared toilet
5 meals / day

waifu in confinement now.

You ask your parents if they will take care of the confinement or not? If not then STFU

This post has been edited by hteekay: Jul 22 2022, 01:26 PM

if cant afford to pay at least 15k , better not have kids
dont cheap out by asking pa/ma to help
to those who said last time pa/ma dont need, last time ur pa/ma need iphone/bmw/vacation?

yes about 15k for private room. i also surveyed previously.

Having kids is really humblebrag worthy