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post Apr 21 2022, 05:25 PM

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QUOTE(trojandude @ Apr 21 2022, 04:46 PM)
The best apps for dating in Malaysia will always be Tinder, Bumble and CMB. If you’re going for other apps it’s either because you’re very Cina (Tantan) or very Malay (Omi).

Tinder is the best for hookups. Avoid if you’re ugly or you have bad pictures. If you complain you’re only getting matched with bots chances are you’re unattractive that’s why only bots match with you.

CMB is the best for serious dating. Mostly populated by Chinese that speaks English. So if you speak lousy English chances are you won’t go far here.

Bumble is basically mixture of CMB and Tinder. Only difference is women start the conversation first. Here’s the thing. If you’re attractive, women would start off with great openers. If you’re unattractive, expect them to start off with “Hi” or “Hey”, or even ghost you because they just wanted validation.

As a reminder, women always have 100x more matches/swipes than you. Online dating heavily favours women. A very attractive women once showed me a tinder account. She has 4000+ matches there.
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regardless of any apps, its about algorithm
its always many matches when you newly installed
then as time goes by, you get less and less matches you will start paying for their services and got desperate
good luck with having good pictures, it's not a bulletproof solution
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post Apr 21 2022, 05:28 PM

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QUOTE(trojandude @ Apr 21 2022, 04:46 PM)
The best apps for dating in Malaysia will always be Tinder, Bumble and CMB. If you’re going for other apps it’s either because you’re very Cina (Tantan) or very Malay (Omi).

Tinder is the best for hookups. Avoid if you’re ugly or you have bad pictures. If you complain you’re only getting matched with bots chances are you’re unattractive that’s why only bots match with you.

CMB is the best for serious dating. Mostly populated by Chinese that speaks English. So if you speak lousy English chances are you won’t go far here.

Bumble is basically mixture of CMB and Tinder. Only difference is women start the conversation first. Here’s the thing. If you’re attractive, women would start off with great openers. If you’re unattractive, expect them to start off with “Hi” or “Hey”, or even ghost you because they just wanted validation.

As a reminder, women always have 100x more matches/swipes than you. Online dating heavily favours women. A very attractive women once showed me a tinder account. She has 4000+ matches there.
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just tried out CMB. i set from 36-45 yrs old.. height 155cm-170cm. 80km within my area. wow get matches with good and great overall outlooks. managers etc etc. after that, i uninstalled.
just curious only LOL. good sharing tq!
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QUOTE(JoGaki @ Apr 21 2022, 04:10 PM)
I dont search for women there.. just spy to see what my kids doing as I saw the app accidentally on their phones
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just ask your kids what are they doing there?
if they say dont know, offer them insights on what's going to happen
dont just keep quiet
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post Apr 21 2022, 07:04 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Apr 21 2022, 05:25 PM)
regardless of any apps, its about algorithm
its always many matches when you newly installed
then as time goes by, you get less and less matches you will start paying for their services and got desperate
good luck with having good pictures, it's not a bulletproof solution
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The initial matches you get a lot is called newbie boost which basically puts your profile on the upper stacks.

However, in a long run, you'll get lesser matches BUT if you're attractive, your profile will always stay on the upper stacks. Hey, Tinder isn't just for men you know, women use them too. Tinder ain't dumb to show them ugly men. Of course they would put up good-looking folks on the upper stacks. (good looking here meaning profiles that get a lot of right swipes). If you're ugly, Tinder will put you on the bottom stack hence why they complain they're not getting matches. Women who use Tinder swipe very little as basically everyone they swipe is a match, so it makes thing even worse for unattractive men as they're on the bottom stack.

If you don't believe me, try registering new tinder accounts on different numbers. You'll realise the initial profiles you see are always the same group of women. Vice versa is true as well.

TLDR: Attractive people have a free pass on Tinder and you don't need to pay. They get prioritized. Those who pay are often those who don't get a lot of right swipes to begin with.

This post has been edited by trojandude: Apr 21 2022, 07:17 PM
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post Apr 21 2022, 07:05 PM

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Jumpa my fubu there.
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QUOTE(trojandude @ Apr 21 2022, 07:04 PM)
Women who use Tinder swipe very little as basically everyone they swipe is a match, so it makes thing even worse for unattractive men as they're on the bottom stack.
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its tough because most women i think when they swipe 20x already bored already
a lot of women use socmed as validation tool or get bored easily and sign off
i paid for tinder subscription for months, and when it hit 3rd month things started to get so slow
luckily my account got banned so i could close my eyes for good
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post Apr 21 2022, 08:18 PM

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QUOTE(moodswingfella @ Apr 21 2022, 07:05 PM)
Jumpa my fubu there.
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i had a few memorable ons there, it was fun and exciting (occupation wise) brows.gif
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post Apr 22 2022, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(hotdayum @ Apr 21 2022, 05:22 PM)
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Wait. How old are your kids?
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Why you need my personal info?? You offer me any girls ka? confused.gif

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QUOTE(hotdayum @ Apr 21 2022, 02:33 PM)
Bwahahaha "nephew and niece"

Serious answer is what is omi?
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Omi is mostly malay, the app so skema
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post Apr 22 2022, 11:20 AM

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QUOTE(JoGaki @ Apr 22 2022, 11:08 AM)
Why you need my personal info?? You offer me any girls ka? confused.gif
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Offer what? NO. Damn.

Okey okey lemme rephrase.

To address this question of yours ayam need to double back to my earlier comment. You can easily open an account with alias. It is safe to say that others can too, and had. So on the question of reliability, if say 50/50 also maybe giving too much benefit of doubt.

Ayam assume your kids are of legal age to be partaking in online dating apps. Seems that you may need to have a talk with them about this.

Deswai ayam ask their age.

If they are 18 to 20yo, still in college, yes la maybe not so familiar with the ways of the world. You'd be telling them about the hazards of seeking relationships with strangers online.

But if your kids are older and have had an independent life of their own for some time, well, they may in turn ask you some awkward questions. Like why are you creeping on a dating app? Why you want to spy on our lives, we adults now?
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post Apr 22 2022, 11:24 AM

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That sounds a proper reply than a troll
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post Apr 22 2022, 11:28 AM

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Piap je la
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QUOTE(HokkienMee_Lover @ Apr 22 2022, 11:28 AM)
Piap je la
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