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post Apr 13 2022, 04:58 PM, updated 4y ago

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First time posting. I'm in my early 30s but i haven't had much sexual experience, more like a monthly basis. I think I've always had Premature Ejaculation.

I started masturbating since I'm 14, only started having sex at the age of 24.

Now I feel that my hardness is not as great as before, and i still ejaculate minutes after penetration, sometimes few minutes, maximum 10-15 minutes. it does help if i'm being ridden but worse when i'm the one pumping. I think it's less of a psychological issue for me. I'm uncut, heard that means more sensitive? I'm also not very sexually active. If I masturbate, I can make myself ejaculate in the matters of seconds.

Thought of seeing a doctor, but am afraid of the medication side effects (presuming that most of these sessions are often dealt with medications only), and although it's completely normal for a doctor to see you naked, but I don't feel comfortable being seen naked by another guy, even if he's a doctor.

Any successful stories to share out there?
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post Apr 13 2022, 09:51 PM

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10 minutes is quite well. Try magic tissue
Btw, my masturbation since I was 11
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post Apr 14 2022, 12:20 AM

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Try to get rid of shyness because you need to consult to a proper doctor for your issue.

Do not wait until its too late.
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post Apr 14 2022, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(alexanthony @ Apr 13 2022, 04:58 PM)
First time posting. I'm in my early 30s but i haven't had much sexual experience, more like a monthly basis. I think I've always had Premature Ejaculation.

I started masturbating since I'm 14, only started having sex at the age of 24.

Now I feel that my hardness is not as great as before, and i still ejaculate minutes after penetration, sometimes few minutes, maximum 10-15 minutes. it does help if i'm being ridden but worse when i'm the one pumping. I think it's less of a psychological issue for me. I'm uncut, heard that means more sensitive? I'm also not very sexually active. If I masturbate, I can make myself ejaculate in the matters of seconds.

Thought of seeing a doctor, but am afraid of the medication side effects (presuming that most of these sessions are often dealt with medications only), and although it's completely normal for a doctor to see you naked, but I don't feel comfortable being seen naked by another guy, even if he's a doctor.

Any successful stories to share out there?
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Dude, if you're uncomfortable showing your dick to a doctor (male or female) how the heck can you be comfortable showing it to a lady? Maybe that's part of your problem too, you're too self conscious and nervous that it is causing PE.

Unless you're at the stage of ED, it is unlikely any urologist would prescribe any medications for you for this issue.

If your dick isn't as hard as it used to be, try the following first :-
How's your BMI and physical fitness? Poor? Get that sorted out first.
How's your diet and other lifestyle habits? Doing drugs? Smoking? High stress? Eating unhealthily? Try improving it first.
How's your cardiovascular health, BP and blood sugar levels? Get that sorted out too, if your erections are weakening then its a precursor that you're developing other health troubles.


QUOTE(SupermanLick @ Apr 13 2022, 09:51 PM)
10 minutes is quite well. Try magic tissue
Btw, my masturbation since I was 11
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I've never heard of magic tissue. A numbing agent of some sort?
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post Apr 22 2022, 05:56 PM

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QUOTE(alexanthony @ Apr 13 2022, 04:58 PM)
First time posting. I'm in my early 30s but i haven't had much sexual experience, more like a monthly basis. I think I've always had Premature Ejaculation.

I started masturbating since I'm 14, only started having sex at the age of 24.

Now I feel that my hardness is not as great as before, and i still ejaculate minutes after penetration, sometimes few minutes, maximum 10-15 minutes. it does help if i'm being ridden but worse when i'm the one pumping. I think it's less of a psychological issue for me. I'm uncut, heard that means more sensitive? I'm also not very sexually active. If I masturbate, I can make myself ejaculate in the matters of seconds.

Thought of seeing a doctor, but am afraid of the medication side effects (presuming that most of these sessions are often dealt with medications only), and although it's completely normal for a doctor to see you naked, but I don't feel comfortable being seen naked by another guy, even if he's a doctor.

Any successful stories to share out there?
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I think your issues are fairly common, especially for younger males.

The effect of porn created a stigma for adults that penetration should last xx hours or long minutes - which is totally subjective. In a lot of occasions, the mind / head plays a huge role in your orgasm - but one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed to reveal or communicate this to their partner, because remember, sex is always a two-way thing.

Your sexual stamina also requires a lot of practice, a lot. Exercises do help, eating and sleeping right too. Some kegel exercise will help for sure. Try not to think about it too much, communicate with your partner and eventually you will be able to get out of it.

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post Apr 23 2022, 04:19 PM

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Masturbating and coming fast is just normal since you knew where and how it felt best especially when you are super aroused after watching porn etc.

Sensitive head is also normal as you are not super sexually active. Plus there's also body fatigue and mental issue.
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post May 2 2022, 09:02 PM

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QUOTE(SupermanLick @ Apr 13 2022, 09:51 PM)
10 minutes is quite well. Try magic tissue
Btw, my masturbation since I was 11
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Wow, since 11, so at what age you start maturation shouldn't matter then.
How long have you been using magic tissue? What's the before and after comparison?
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post May 2 2022, 09:03 PM

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QUOTE(StanleyTong @ Apr 14 2022, 12:20 AM)
Try to get rid of shyness because you need to consult to a proper doctor for your issue.

Do not wait until its too late.
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Understand.. Do you have any personal experience in this?
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post May 2 2022, 09:05 PM

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QUOTE(R231_SL65_AMG @ Apr 14 2022, 05:22 PM)
Dude, if you're uncomfortable showing your dick to a doctor (male or female) how the heck can you be comfortable showing it to a lady? Maybe that's part of your problem too, you're too self conscious and nervous that it is causing PE.

Unless you're at the stage of ED, it is unlikely any urologist would prescribe any medications for you for this issue.

If your dick isn't as hard as it used to be, try the following first :-
How's your BMI and physical fitness? Poor? Get that sorted out first.
How's your diet and other lifestyle habits? Doing drugs? Smoking? High stress? Eating unhealthily? Try improving it first.
How's your cardiovascular health, BP and blood sugar levels? Get that sorted out too, if your erections are weakening then its a precursor that you're developing other health troubles.
I've never heard of magic tissue. A numbing agent of some sort?
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Well I haven't been with a lot of ladies, showing to girlfriend is on I suppose? You may be right. You've never had performance issue?
My BMI is normal, no drugs smoking. Quite healthy generally.
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post May 2 2022, 10:50 PM

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QUOTE(alexanthony @ May 2 2022, 09:02 PM)
Wow, since 11, so at what age you start maturation shouldn't matter then.
How long have you been using magic tissue? What's the before and after comparison?
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Day and night
Before hardly ever 15mins. After rubbing it, can double piap. 1st about 15mins piap cool down no shoot, rest 10mins
2nd dick up again paip 20mins blown up☄️👈
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post May 2 2022, 11:04 PM

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Nowday I'm rarely use magic tissue, I just wanted fast piap. I like the blown up feeling. Settled
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post May 4 2022, 07:30 AM

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QUOTE(andrewtho @ Apr 22 2022, 05:56 PM)
I think your issues are fairly common, especially for younger males.

The effect of porn created a stigma for adults that penetration should last xx hours or long minutes - which is totally subjective. In a lot of occasions, the mind / head plays a huge role in your orgasm - but one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed to reveal or communicate this to their partner, because remember, sex is always a two-way thing.

Your sexual stamina also requires a lot of practice, a lot. Exercises do help, eating and sleeping right too. Some kegel exercise will help for sure. Try not to think about it too much, communicate with your partner and eventually you will be able to get out of it.
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But I am no longer young.. Practicing with different partners regularly? Maybe people who are playboy perform well in bed cause they practices a lot?
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post May 4 2022, 07:32 AM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Apr 23 2022, 04:19 PM)
Masturbating and coming fast is just normal since you knew where and how it felt best especially when you are super aroused after watching porn etc.

Sensitive head is also normal as you are not super sexually active. Plus there's also body fatigue and mental issue.
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Uncut = sensitive head I heard?
Agree that I can come fast masturbating, but if I don't slow dien my penetrstion I think I come just as fast
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post May 4 2022, 07:33 AM

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QUOTE(SupermanLick @ May 2 2022, 11:04 PM)
Nowday I'm rarely use magic tissue, I just wanted fast piap. I like the blown up feeling. Settled
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Regularly 15-20 minutes is already like a dream to me
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post May 4 2022, 05:48 PM

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QUOTE(alexanthony @ May 2 2022, 09:05 PM)
Well I haven't been with a lot of ladies, showing to girlfriend is on I suppose? You may be right. You've never had performance issue?
My BMI is normal, no drugs smoking. Quite healthy generally.
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Usually ED or losing stiffness to an erect penis is a first sign of heart or cardiovascular related diseases. Could also be early stage buildup of plaque in your arteries, you have to remember the arteries that feed blood to your erectile tissues are among the smallest arterial vessels in the body only 2mm width therefore its among the easiest to suffer a blockage.

The other issue that could be causing it especially as you age if low testosterones level. This can be due to aging or you may have other underlying health issues.

Anyway best to visit both a cardiologist and urologist.

Was having some performance issues last year due to stress from work, bad diet and poor lifestyle choices in addition to being obese. Refractory period became longer and erections were no longer as frequent or as firm. Now back to normal thanks to some choices I made.
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u need to have a regular partner to practice. alternatively use thicker condoms
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post May 7 2022, 06:59 AM

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QUOTE(R231_SL65_AMG @ May 4 2022, 05:48 PM)
Usually ED or losing stiffness to an erect penis is a first sign of heart or cardiovascular related diseases. Could also be early stage buildup of plaque in your arteries, you have to  remember the arteries that feed blood to your erectile tissues are among the smallest arterial vessels in the body only 2mm width  therefore its among the easiest to suffer a blockage.

The other issue that could be causing it especially as you age if low testosterones level. This can be due to aging or you may have other underlying health issues.

Anyway best to visit both a cardiologist and urologist.

Was having some performance issues last year due to stress from work, bad diet and poor lifestyle choices in addition to being obese. Refractory period became longer and erections were no longer as frequent or as firm. Now back to normal thanks to some choices I made.
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I see thanks for sharing. Did you visit both specialist to recover though?
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QUOTE(zstan @ May 4 2022, 05:50 PM)
u need to have a regular partner to practice. alternatively use thicker condoms
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Understand, practice makes perfect.
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QUOTE(alexanthony @ May 7 2022, 06:59 AM)
I see thanks for sharing. Did you visit both specialist to recover though?
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I been seeing a cardiologist for hypertension issues.

I was given a referral to see a urologist but cardiologist suggested I take steps to perform more exercises, eat healthily and have a better lifestyle first before seeing the urologist as she was very likely to say the same thing.

Therefore I decided to take early retirement, eat a ketogenic diet, exercise 5 times per week and move to burn at least 750kcal per day and most importantly sleep at least 8 hours per night.


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post May 9 2022, 09:08 PM

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I have dealt with the problem of rapid ejaculation, and I believe that the problem lies in the mental state. I think I stopped wanting my wife, and my brain is subconsciously trying to finish the coitus process faster. I think maybe I should start taking Viagra to increase intercourse, but I think I just need to get a hold of another woman, and my ejaculation will be fine smile.gif What do you think about that?

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