TS... Some ladies are slow-warm and a bit shy in actions.
In first date they probably hide their passion for a guy even they're quite interested. Some might be nervous in constant eye contact during conversation.

For this kind of ladies, you couldn't expect them act proactively in dating sessions, such as leaning towards you, touch you etc.. They just can't.

If she gave first signal already, then instead, you could test water by none harmful touch, such as lightly tap her arms or hands while talking.

You may also directly ask how she feels about you, then listening to her answers while observing her reaction, and if she would blush.

If after a few months you're comfortable with her, then you may advance such as try holding her hands or simply hold her tight but gently see if she would resist or not.

If she feels comfortable, remember your confession to her.

that's pretty much given
if you're on tinder, do you swipe as much as possible and chat with as much match as possible? duh

I was supposed to meet 5 females yesterday
23, 25, mid 20s, 28, 31, ended up only meet 35 year old at late evening lmao

okay TS, left a chocolate, not too bad after all

So TS need to ask yourself, you wanna continue go for 2nd?

But there are few things to remember , always keep your self calm in your head. Don't be desperate, don't emo when she rejects, keep it cool

We wish you all the best

Treat dating apps as a platform for you to know more female friends. Not for the purpose of dating. If you see them as a target, you will look desperate and act irrationally at times. Great things/relationship comes with no expectation. Thats how i met my gf via a dating app 2 years ago.

Treat them as friend.

so wht the interesting story? manage score any?

Thank you all, I read all the replies here.

For the one I am supposed to meet on last Sunday, her TanTan has been inactive for a few days in a row up to Sunday, I wasn't able to arrange the date properly with her being MIA, our chat was halfway. Her bio says "seldom online in here" and she means it literally by going MIA so long.

She continued to go missing until last night she online again, I asked for her alternative communication method and got her WhatsApp, then had a great time texting each other all night long until she sleeps at 1am.

For some reason she agreed easily in TanTan back then, but seems a bit hesitant when I try to arrange the date in WhatsApp, I can see she did not directly answer the invitation and changed topic. She said she felt a bit embarrassed to finish work quite late and hesitant to make me wait just to dinner with her. But I have a good feeling about this, probably she is just warming up and may change her mind to Yes after some more time bonding with her.

I expect to see her this coming Sun, will go for invitation again maybe after 1 or 2 days. She's really cute and fun to chat with.

Is working in facial service very demanding? Like, almost no time off? Response rate low for these kind of girls, can go missing very long.

they're looking for business, what you expect
unless you buy packages from them

Now that you knocked some sense into me, seems that way.

I usually will open the conversation with "Oh you're a facial specialist aren't you?", "I'm going to let you do facial for me".

They will reply, but give it some time they seemed to stop replying if I try to progress to casual chat for bonding purpose.

All the best to u

dont waste time, unless if you genuinely want to enjoy her facial service

too much drama

just write there single, virgin, want to get unvirgin, looking for good figure good looking girl, willing to pay for your shoppin. Simple.

Usually those working in retail outlets are Ah Lian or those who don't usually converse in English.

These kind of conversation won't work for them.

Just like Japanese, they cannot catch sarcasm or understand humorous one-liners.

Not really feel that kind of dating apps are trustable... most of apps looks like a scam

I took a day's COVID vaccination leave yesterday for the booster, and arranged the date with 1 of my TanTan matches right after the booster shot.

She is elder than me by a few years, but age is just a number, to keep it simple, let's just say she's very desirable, to me. We had a great time together, we went to arcades to play, we especially enjoyed the basketball game, I couldn't beat her score, luckily she thought I was just letting her win, and be happy about it.

Then we both share the same desire for Family Mart's green tea ice cream, she told me she couldn't finish 1 cone, and prefer we buy 1 cone and just share it. I was a bit reluctant but at the end give in. Then we found a place to sit down and just enjoy our time there, talking about stuffs, past future present those things.

At some point the topic started to become heavy for my taste, she told me she was supposed to be married by now if she didn't ask for a breakup in the heat of argument with her bf. I started to sense the urgency of marriage in her tone, she's very looking forward to the ceremony, have kids, be a house wife to focus on the kids, she even came up with names for male and female kids. I just keep listening and listening, seeing her so immersed in this topic.

Towards the end of date, I was going to send her home, before I get out of car park, she took the initiative to kiss me, and then wants to French. I thought it was a harmless move, but then she grabbed my hand and placed it on her chest, now I knew what she wanted. My gut feeling told me do not do it, so I just gently pushed her away and said I did not bring protection, but she said it is fine and do not mind.

My gut feeling at this point further confirmed she might be dangerous, there may be some motive behind, or maybe I was overthinking, it doesn't matter, if my gut says no, it means no. So I stand firm and told her I am just going to send her home. The whole ride was a bit of awkward silence until reaches her home.

I uninstalled TanTan after I reached my home.

It's a balance of staying relatively alert vs trusting a person to some extent when you first meet the person . And then if you're lucky enough to continue with a person for first few mths, time would tell the trustworthiness of the person.

In fact we could gauge whether a person is trustworthy or not to certain extent by observation when our heart and mind are crystal clear enough.
And it takes practice.

If you're in balance mode, your gut feeling is your best compass while without overwhelmed by fears.

Your gut feeling could be right. But this specific experience shouldn't stop you from continue to find love from dating apps or other social circles.

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i asked a cute malay girl out also, 19 years old i believe
grabbed my hand to touch her breast in my car during late afternoon travel
i sense she's DTF but i was ignorant to escalate further (her father is unknown or from rich background) because i wasn't completely sure what's her motive
but luckily she's a bitch anyway on other platform, soon i quickly block her from social media also

so the conclusion is,
TanTan is not a good app for find bf/gf?

You were probably right to trust your gut feeling, who knows what might happen if you did give in to your desires...