for me ler, i met my ex-gf on9 through ICQ. haha...but not like u ler. ask to be bf n gf through msn. my version is that i met her in uni then bla bla bla....start pak toh ady. haha...but 1st of all, how old are you? maybe when u both meet each other, might start to like have the feeling of not knowing each other well enuf. lol..