QUOTE(BillCollector @ Jun 25 2021, 03:58 PM)
Why I pass?
Simple, I'm 45 this year, she at 42 and if she wants a 1st child the risk for birth defects is 1 in 20 where if the guy is 30 and she 42 the risk is closer to 1 in 100. I prefer to avoid these types of risk especially where it involves any other person other than me.
The next reason is I do have children from previous relationships and generally women that don't already have children don't make good wives for men that have custody of children from a previous relationship. This is particularly an issue where the woman is up there in age.
Pursuant to the issue that she may want a child, I feel at 45 I prefer not to have any more babies as the reality of after 4 babies
I don't enjoy waking up at 3am to feed the little fellow, even after 4 babies I'm not that good at burping a baby and don't enjoy vomited milk on my shoulders, I definitely don't enjoy tending to his or her soiled diapers, I also feel with a recent newborn baby that I just don't cope well with my sleep being interrupted because of a crying baby and that my own energy levels just doesn't cope well with the rigors of raising a baby and finally I feel that at my age I much rather have more "me time".
Finally, while I'm looking for a long term relationship am not looking for one where it requires marriage. I'm fairly satisfied with less formal relationships even where the woman is 42 and might have a child or two.
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QUOTE(BillCollector)
4th : I'm doubtful he likes me either as hierarchy of who can carry him is his mom, his grandma, the ayi I hired for them and his half sister. I carry him he screams his lungs out. No idea why either as of all the children I have this boy looks most like me. I wish I could spend more time with him but for now the best that can happen is 1 week per month only due to work commitments.
My + my partner's son's name : Zhou Yao-Junior R********
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QUOTE(BillCollector @ Sep 13 2021, 12:27 AM)
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With compliments from Zhou Yao-Junior R********.
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Money is not everything.... it's the only thing. Can't even get that right.
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This post has been edited by lurkingaround: Sep 13 2021, 01:36 PM