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IMO, sex, money, time, household responsibilities, etc should not be weaponized by either of both parties in the relationship, where 2 parties should become one at heart for the sake of the family as one, ie there should be mutual sacrifice in love. .......

"I, ____, take you, ____, to be my (husband/wife). I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life, until death do us part."
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