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 I was humiliated at a job interview for asking, what was a company's culture like

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post Jun 2 2021, 05:15 PM

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honestly i feel your questions too blunt lah. Also the first question was bordering on rudeness already.
i think your choice of words need to improve lah. Too blunt for an interview.
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post Jun 2 2021, 07:18 PM

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Question 2 and 3 are the basic interview questions that being posted all over the internet. If you do a basic search on Google, you will same pattern of questions.

Why some of you really butthurt with TS choice of questions?

If this is the way the HOD or HR reacts to these questions, this company is not worth it for you to join.

Asian mentality + Boomers mentality = A total disaster.

This post has been edited by xpole: Jun 2 2021, 07:22 PM
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post Jun 2 2021, 07:34 PM

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QUOTE(xpole @ Jun 2 2021, 07:18 PM)
Question 2 and 3 are the basic interview questions that being posted all over the internet. If you do a basic search on Google, you will same pattern of questions.

Why some of you really butthurt with TS choice of questions?

If this is the way the HOD or HR reacts to these questions, this company is not worth it for you to join.

Asian mentality + Boomers mentality = A total disaster.
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post Jun 2 2021, 07:43 PM

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Take the ordeal as a learning experience and there’s no need to feel depressed

Sometimes it pays to read the body language too and their early correspondence with u is a good tell tale sign whether they can take professional questions from your end.

I think in the end u didn’t lose anything maybe ur ego is a bit battered but that’s normal in job hunting process.

Stick and stones may break ur bones, but words will never....

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post Jun 4 2021, 06:16 PM

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Nothing wrong but like others said poor choice of words.
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post Jun 6 2021, 11:50 PM

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QUOTE(MerryGoRound^2 @ Jun 2 2021, 11:43 AM)
Hey folks. Thought I would pop in to give you guys an update on things.

So I got off the call with the recruiter an hour ago. Obviously, with how bad the interview went, it was a no-go on either sides. That said, the recruiter did ask what went wrong, and I shared my side of the story.

To cut the story short, the recruiter had shared they heard some negative feedback about the HoD from time to time. And they also acknowledged the hiring manager didn't have the slightest clue of what they were doing either.

Someone else also came forward to share their experience with the company, and had withdrawn themselves from the hiring process too. I was also given insiders info on things, let's just say the hiring department isn't in the best shape at the moment.

Anyways, I believe that is the end of the saga. I would gladly reveal the name of the company, though please PM me if you seriously wanna know. I left a review on their glassdoor profile, but I don't know if it was passed. Side note, you guys have been amazing, the supportive bunch I mean. There are those who have also chastised me, including one user here who started off supportive but probably turned salty when I didn't reply to his kind words :S. Also a shame to see a popular face here remark "You're a content writer but you can't even speak well."

Regardless, I'm gonna leave this thread open, it'd be nice to see if any other stuck up management folks would come in here to offer their piece of (shitty) mind for the kicks of it. I welcome those who wanna share their horror interview stories to come forward and speak up too!

Happy surviving FMCO yall!
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Glad to see some closure. Had they offered the job, you should have declined anyway, but that was something that wasn't even likely in the first place cry.gif cry.gif
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post Jun 6 2021, 11:53 PM

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which company?
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post Jun 7 2021, 01:43 AM

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Hey folks, I'm still getting people PM-ing me about the company name.

Unfortunately, I don't think I can divulge the manager's name anymore tongue.gif

My recruiter caught wind of this thread on Wed, just hours after I said I wouldn't mind revealing the company's name. I had only revealed the names to one person thus far and so I have my hunch about who might have tipped my recruiter off. And I don't really wanna implicate those who attended the same interview and shared their experiences with me either.

As such, I don't think I can reveal names any further. Though I honestly see no wrong in doing that.

What I will say is the company is based around the vicinity of a very affluent Damansara area. Those who know will figure it out in no time.
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post Jun 7 2021, 07:58 AM

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Normal la
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post Jun 7 2021, 02:41 PM

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QUOTE(MerryGoRound^2 @ May 25 2021, 11:20 PM)
1) What is your approach to social media at the moment? Are you prioritizing quantity over quality? [I was asking this because their social media posting frequencies seemed irregular, and their post followed the standard copywriting style]

The question was met a very stern rebuke along the lines of "Everything we do here is quality, let's put it that way." The HoD seemed to take offense to the question. Trigger point 1

2) Could you tell me a little about your company culture and what makes it unique?

This was met with. "I don't understand the question. What I can say is we are a team lah. We're very performance-based. And we try to keep the work-life balance intact. Trigger Point 2." At this point, I was sensing more animosity from the HoD.

3) I imagine I'll be working with you and X often, can you tell me how's your leadership style like?

Straight up, "I don't know where your head's at. What picture are you trying to paint here?" At this point I knew she was getting pissed. The recruiter had told me the HoD can be blunt but is nurturing, and I expected her to be blunt, but it was obviously clear that she's angry.

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People here were not pissed that you asked questions. People were pissed because of the dumb shit that you asked.

What were your expectations when you ask these questions?? I dont fucking understand especially the first question. Of course people are gonna sugarcoat and tell you that everything is fine and dandy. doh.gif You can't expect people to open up to you just from this kind of interactions wtf. The recruiter probably saw through your shit and got angry lol.

Grow some tact seriously. People who feel so entitled and so high up their horses that they don't think twice about what they're saying are not someone one usually enjoys working with. Just saying.
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post Jun 8 2021, 08:29 AM

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QUOTE(happy_berry @ Jun 7 2021, 02:41 PM)
People here were not pissed that you asked questions. People were pissed because of the dumb shit that you asked.

What were your expectations when you ask these questions?? I dont fucking understand especially the first question. Of course people are gonna sugarcoat and tell you that everything is fine and dandy. doh.gif  You can't expect people to open up to you just from this kind of interactions wtf. The recruiter probably saw through your shit and got angry lol.

Grow some tact seriously. People who feel so entitled and so high up their horses that they don't think twice about what they're saying are not someone one usually enjoys working with. Just saying.
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On the other hand, there's hiring managers who are also so entitled, and at the same time wonder why ppl quit on them, and/or why they're unable to hire at all for months for even years.

To be honest, these are very valid questions to be asked. And I have gotten back answers about the exact less than rosy situation back before too in an honest manner. A summary on the problems that the hiring company is having, and why they are hiring ppl who can help them resolve such issues, and for the role being interviewed for, how exactly does it fit into solving the issues that they need to be solved.

Saying that everything is fine and dandy is after all, another huge red flag too. There simply is no such thing after all. If there can be no honesty about the situation at a job interview, then why bother having a job interview at all? Might as well just outsource to a delivery partner, and don't need to worry about bringing in additional headcount at all anymore.


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post Jun 8 2021, 05:30 PM

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I don't see anything wrong with the questions asked.

Leaders don't use rank as an excuse not to answer any questions posted. If they have this mentality, they are definitely not suited for the role and it will be a miserable job until you find another.

Banking roles are very mundane and if they are promoted due to seniority and not because of capability, this happens. You should be glad because it is a clear indicator to stay the f away from this kind of toxic environment.

The affluent damansara city is not meant for everybody.
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post Jun 8 2021, 10:07 PM

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QUOTE(malleus @ Jun 8 2021, 08:29 AM)
On the other hand, there's hiring managers who are also so entitled, and at the same time wonder why ppl quit on them, and/or why they're unable to hire at all for months for even years.

To be honest, these are very valid questions to be asked. And I have gotten back answers about the exact less than rosy situation back before too in an honest manner. A summary on the problems that the hiring company is having, and why they are hiring ppl who can help them resolve such issues, and for the role being interviewed for, how exactly does it fit into solving the issues that they need to be solved.

Saying that everything is fine and dandy is after all, another huge red flag too. There simply is no such thing after all. If there can be no honesty about the situation at a job interview, then why bother having a job interview at all? Might as well just outsource to a delivery partner, and don't need to worry about bringing in additional headcount at all anymore.
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Like I said, who is dumb enough to air their dirty laundry to a potential employee whom they've just met few minutes ago? doh.gif The question is like one of those dumbass iv question "wHat iS uR bigGest wEaknESs??". There are many ways to navigate about this situation, heck some here even give great examples on how to rephrase the questions.
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post Jun 9 2021, 07:53 AM

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QUOTE(happy_berry @ Jun 8 2021, 10:07 PM)
Like I said, who is dumb enough to air their dirty laundry to a potential employee whom they've just met few minutes ago?  doh.gif The question is like one of those dumbass iv question "wHat iS uR bigGest wEaknESs??". There are many ways to navigate about this situation, heck some here even give great examples on how to rephrase the questions.
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well, first of all, if you had actually read through the posts, you will find that the words used in the first post is just the summary of what the TS had said. And the TS had clarified later on the exact words he had used in this thread too.

And I have indeed asked questions in a more direct manner than the TS too. such as: what are the problems that you are facing? For the interviewer to be not honest at this stage is pretty much similar to falsifying the job scope.
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post Jun 9 2021, 09:24 AM

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ur ques is too serious
on the other hand, they probably dont know what they are doing, tats y cant answer uu back
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post Jun 9 2021, 08:58 PM

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QUOTE(Enjoise @ Jun 9 2021, 09:24 AM)
ur ques is too serious
on the other hand, they probably dont know what they are doing, tats y cant answer uu back
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The questions weren't serious. It's an interview after all, so obv the questions have to be asked in a serious tone. The questions' contents/messages weren't an issue, its the choice of words the OP choose to ask.

Both sides are at fault here anyway so,,,
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post Jun 10 2021, 01:29 PM

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Sounds like a shitty interviewer and those who have the 'I'm better than you' mentality. Good riddance to bad rubbish. You did well!

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