for those married guys.... how is your sex life during this MCO? How often do you have sex with your spouse during this MCO period?

cold weather brrrr... for the past week every morning have to unload because of morning wood and warm body feeling

lame. sex before marriage is good. After that, not so. Guess need to add spices to it.

what is sex? can eat?

same as before mco.. no different in quantity nor quality ..

i guess diff story for those who work required them to travel regularly

well more for me, twice more....boring..mau buat apa....

wah so lucky la you..

true....

you can try a lot different stuffs like sexual positions and roleplays. Take viagra and do 5x a day.

For the married lifestyle......... Sex should be daily that not limited to intercourse type only.

my neighbors has been rocking the bed like 4 times in a week constantly and they're like mid 40's couple with daughters around my age. The uncle already have beer belly with graying hair but the missus rather raunchy thou.

I really hope you guys are tapping it as much as them and I refuse to think that love making is lost once you get married after the honeymoon period.

No difference, cuz both still work despite mco

yeah betul betul losts passion after married, after having kids.... wife prefer to watch korean dramas then have sex... and when request for it, she will nag / scold/ etc....

non stop during mco until kuku tired

Maybe everyone does things differently in their household but one would think requesting for sex, in other words demanding for it from the missus will always end in failure ... no?

may I know how do you request for it?

Not married.

People i'm seeing normally lives in. For me, it begins by sharing my plan for the evening or next morning. And insinuate what's going to happen like "hey, i bought a new brand of cream. Wanna try cookies and cream in bed?"

if she participates. ON. If she say...Oh, xyz. You have fun.
Then, I guess it's incognito mode then. What to do.

For married one. I think it's better to actually establish a routine on how to proceed. And declined without hurting the relationship. I don't think people that care for one another will declined. Unless something else that's going wrong.

And last thing u will wanna do is lashing out "Last time we had was 2 weeks ago!". You will immediate feel the wedge grew even bigger.

Same here. Me & wife also mid 40's, married for 17years. Few days once & sometimes 2 days in a row. Both working throughout from last MCO. Maybe more often during MCO cause got more time due to no social activities with relatives or friends.

that is the way

red wine, chocolates, aromatic candles and music the best

just don't put the candles anywhere near your curtains or bed sheets

Not lucky per-say...but make it something new....top anak umur 9 this year...quite hard~

No longer married but I do have a gf that lives with me.

The issue we face now is despite living in the same home we both operate on a different timezone. She teaches an online class to a local time. I have 2 jobs and my primary job requires me to work to a German time zone. Previously we spent a lot of time in the car as my secondary job is 70 and 90 km away respectively and it gave us ample time to catch up. However now with MCO I am allowed to cross district and state boundaries while she has the 10km radius restriction.

Lately not really in the mood for anything as feeling the pressure and stress from both jobs. Also working to a German timezone while living here is something I am having trouble adjusting to especially when it comes to sleep. Thankfully she understands the situation.

hari hari main??? hahhaa

cool neighbour but...

why you know?

Turbulence

Some neighbor want the world to know all about their passion. Exhibitionist?

Buat aja lah...

Before and just after marriage is always good.

Things will get a bit difficult when there is kids.

This is also a time when a lot of guys will eat outside, due to lack of action at home. Some girls will just "turn off" after having kids, even though both party help each other in terms of house chores.

Before marriage or when honeymoon period it is usually the waifu say why you didn't touch me one, my body not hot meh. I have mates who went from daily sex for 13 years to now 9 months without sex as the waifu just suddenly "turn off" dry like a desert. Jaga kids and lazy at sofa watch drama all day only. The usual "request' method doesnt work anymore, kena nag back why so horny, take my lingerie from closet go settle yourself in toilet, if raba waifu a bit before go toilet will kena scold kaw kaw. Before kids his waifu will always request raba here or there, or talk abit his waifu already wet like ocean.

Have a good talk with each other, for sure something is lacking, or there is some underlying problem, which is usually the case. Also there is also sexual compatibility to look out for those who havent married.

Hahha this happen to me before and right now... sad case 😢

yes you are right.. agree with you 100%

how you know?

You know that scene from the fellowship where Merry dropped the bucket into the dead silence mines of Moria and awaken the trolls dwelling in the 40m radius

... except I'm awaken by bed squeaking. NGL, it's hawt but the unker is a minuteman so yea ...

back when I was still a smoker, I'll go out to the balcony and have a fag when they're going at it hard ... He'll come out and smoke after the ordeal and we catch up since we're neighbors, which is nice. I think it's rather awkward now that I vape in the room since and when we meet at the lift lobby our conversations sorta dead. times are rough ya know.

sex is about the same but hugging and kissing are more often compare to before MCO.. 40+ couple with no children

Happens to the best of us bro.

I can see this is quite a common occurrence that is not really talk much about.

Well it is always the guys fault anyway, so.....

Not married but stay with my gf. Our sex life is okay. Twice a week max. Sometimes once over weekends. Weekdays I'm too tired with my work. Work from home is more tiring than working in office as boss msg all the time. Rubbish boss.

So to ensure our life is spiced up, I buy some nice clothes from online, that I wish to see my gf wear them. Not bikinis. But I'm a bit into satin fetish so she has a lot of them to wear.

Oh cool...

Nice sharing guys...

Can I just ask, now that COVID disruption is no longer an issue, any updates from the heroes and grandmasters here on their exploits?

Everyone's situation is probably different, but for us, it's been surprisingly good. Spending more time together definitely helps. We've found ourselves having more spontaneous moments, which has been a nice change from the usual routine.

I’ve noticed that having more time together has certainly helped the overall relationship between my wife and me… especially since I’m now semi retired. We talk more and are looking forward to doing more things together. We’ve spent too much of our lives working that we forgot sometimes about the loving….