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Serious Why some old people still single?, serious question
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mypalm79
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Jul 26 2021, 11:13 AM
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Choosing to be alone is a matter of personal choice. I my self have been stop dating for 10 years and focus on my career, through out 10 years, i learnt and earned more then any of my married friends, i also learnt that those who are insecure will need a partner either for companionship or financial support.
Now i am in my early 40s, looking back what i have decided 10 years ago, i am glad i make that choice. Recently i started dating again, and yes there are plenty of ladies, every 3 months i get to date different girls and choose who i wanna settle down with.
My advice is, don't get desperate for a companionship, built up your career, financial portfolio, and invest at least 4 properties, automatically ladies will come along easily. 40s is our prime time.
This post has been edited by mypalm79: Jul 26 2021, 11:19 AM
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mypalm79
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Jul 26 2021, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Jul 26 2021, 11:20 AM) Agreed, that's the plan, no point following the majority marry early and have stunt growth or live a miserable life, worse if financial bottomline is severely impacted from divorce, men got no idea what they're getting into. Once a good money base has been built, men will be swarmed in choices naturally. Start to reap the rewards, taste different snack whenever you wish, no contract, no obligation. Exactly, i started dating since 2 years back, so many choices...some are young divorcee, some are wives of useless husbands, young graduates, property agents, insurance agents, bankers...it really open my eyes about Malaysian ladies. Do i still wanna settle down? the answer is No. From my own random dating lifestyle, Malaysian girls carry very little values, many do not even have a retirement plan, only 1 house and is still paying every month, very low buying power, and worst the self entitlement! Am i happy with my current lifestyle? Hell yeah and i wanna live and grow old gracefully.
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mypalm79
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Jul 26 2021, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(Sasuke95 @ Jul 26 2021, 01:21 PM) Aren't those insurance or property agents out for making business deals rather than romance? I had dates with them and they end up telling me the business details in the restaurant, very irritating I want to leave. And yes they're pretty much useless, all they have is the body that earned them lots of attention, given enough time they think they're god, hence the entitlement. They truly rely on their physical to the max. Girls with actual substances are a bit tricky to find, at least they contribute to things other than physical. That's my goal, i plan to achieve that freedom in late 20s, plan is already at late stage, once timing is ready in a few more months to 1 year, I'll harvest it then officially quit job and solely enjoy life, no job, no bs office politics, no work, never lift a finger anymore. Be extremely hardworking and plan meticulously during early years, only to be completely lazy later, a bit of irony huh When i finally have all the time in the world, I'll dive into the possibility of finding life partner, some places include ukraine, columbia. And you gave me some places to start with, but what is the quality that makes them good? Yes, i was exploring different dating experiences from time to time. Maybe i am bias, but i had experienced so much in such a short time with different ladies and i can safely conclude, Malaysian ladies have very little value and yet demand a lot from their partner if compare to other regions i posted to such as China, Vietnam, Germany, Australia, Japan and Hong Kong. I do agree there are some fine ladies here, met a few of them. However, i can't stand being control by them. lol This post has been edited by mypalm79: Jul 26 2021, 02:17 PM
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mypalm79
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Jul 26 2021, 03:39 PM
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QUOTE(calodin @ Jul 26 2021, 02:51 PM) Russia and White Russia are good place to date. But its all up to fate, cannot be too mechanical about dating also, not like choosing vege at pasar. So let fate do its work. If it was up to me, I would avoid vietnam ladies. i have good experience with Vietnamese ladies, i was referring to those with proper upbringing. I met one in HCMC, introduced by a local lady friend of mine who work in HSBC as a credit manager. Very fine lady, polite, earning pretty well too and that she manage to secure 2 beautiful 3 storey rustic property, plus she is very frugal with her earning cause she has to take care of her aging mom and sister. I can say she came from a background of making the best out of nothing. However we just remain best friend cause i ain't good enuff for her. lol This post has been edited by mypalm79: Jul 26 2021, 03:39 PM
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