Walao so many answers some PhD level thesis also got.

Answer damn simple.

Comfort zone.

If it’s not comfortable they will get off their ass and do something about it.

If they complain cannot find, complain single, but they are still on their ass, their actions show you that while they are uncomfortable being single, it’s even more uncomfortable for them to go find someone.

So in conclusion, comfort zone. Itu saja.