as per title.

Sorry if this question is offensive/stupid but Im genuinely curious.

I met a lot of old people that are still single (never married) and just wonder why. their age is 40+, some i know are retired like 60+, theres one grandpa i met before too (idk his age, maybe 70+?) , i assumed he is a grandpa with grandchildren but actually hes single and never married.
I cant ask them cause they might get offended. so i ask here lol

i have 1 relative she is 40 and still looking but no luck. I personally think her personality is good, maybe physically not so attractive but ive seen uglier people and people with worse personality have husband/wife.

i dont get it, i thought theres a person for everyone?

If you don't intend to get married why work so hard and struggle in life?

All the riches and wealth you built up will end up going funding/paying taxes to unnecessary future migrants, and orphans which neither are your own flesh and blood.

Sort of foolish idea.

My destiny in life is determined by myself and I shall not allow myself to be "cuckold".

Say you die one day a loner with millions in the bank unclaimed. How's that anything important to you anymore?
Who you want to give it to?

Donate to charity? Give to the orphans?

Same return question can be asked. Why work so hard when you are a single to earn all these much only to be given up for charity when you return home to God?

How's that viable?

So if it's your wish to handover your wealth and stored up savings to outsiders no one's stopping you.

Viable or not differs on the individual.

My own hard earned keep of course for my own or my own descendents / offsprings.