For me I try not to generalize all malays, coz I do know of a number of malays in real life and also worked with malay colleagues. Majority are decent ppl who only want to cari makan peacefully. Which is why whenever arguing in /k I try to be specific at the person alone and not the entire race (easier said than done though, I'll admit that).
But you know what, sometimes susah la bang... sometimes very susah not to generalize... when you see comments in fb or malay majority sites like cari forum. When 99.9999% comments are mainly salah cina kapir dapigs kurang ajar menindas melayu dah berani cabar islam etc etc. When there are very little to zero malays speaking up for the nons. Look at the france beheading issue and almost all the comments in fb are like, tu lah siapa suruh pegi jolok sarang tebuan, bagus kapir bagi mati semua, ayuh kita tetak semua kepala kafir lahanat, quoting Quran/Hadith texts on why non-muslims cannot be friends and can only be enemies, and so on. Whenever any incidents involving chinese (or worse still, chinese with malays), see the racial shitstorm in cyberspace. I do believe many are instigators and shitstirrers but I don't think its feasible to say ALL of them are cybertroopers.

So yeah, while many non-malays are guilty of generalizing, non malays can only bark so much. Malays being the majority, can you guys improve yourselves rather than playing the blame game? Be more successful than the cina and respect will come. Don't just point at 1-2 successful malays and say we malays are already successful. If malays are already on par or better than the nons, then why keep supporting special rights and blaming nons? See my (and probably many other nons) frustration now?

For better or worse this country's direction will be under you malays. Nons are getting fewer by the years, and pretty soon (maybe even as soon as 30 years down the road) they'll be an insignificant minority. For how much longer can the nons (especially cina) be blamed (or malays allowing themselves to be instigated by shitstirrers) for everything wrong under the sun?