If we dont buy dream car or dream house and save the money, invest in more solid things, will it be bad for you?

Why must have dream car and dream house even though already have a good house and decent car? End up paying installment and mortgage forever, ikat perut.

I dont see the logic.

I know women also buy expensive things no logic sometimes, I dont agree with them also, at least I dont do it, I rather save the money for my daughter future.

If say buy expensive car and house can make my future better somehow, then maybe, but they dont right?

No offense but I think this is kinda shallow mindset, not criticize, just stating the logic.