If we dont buy dream car or dream house and save the money, invest in more solid things, will it be bad for you?

Why must have dream car and dream house even though already have a good house and decent car? End up paying installment and mortgage forever, ikat perut.

I dont see the logic.

I know women also buy expensive things no logic sometimes, I dont agree with them also, at least I dont do it, I rather save the money for my daughter future.

If say buy expensive car and house can make my future better somehow, then maybe, but they dont right?

No offense but I think this is kinda shallow mindset, not criticize, just stating the logic.

If dont understand..just diam 7..

Some ppl enjoy chasing the dreams..

Should not concern u at all

This post has been edited by Baconateer: Jun 3 2020, 10:04 PM

Usi tek luit!

Pelihai pelihai

20-30 ; fcuk buying all the dream car and house, invest in more solid things (TS).

30-40 ; no dream car house, just continue feed family

40-60 ; send dotter to good uni and college

60-80 ; how is the investment in more "solid things" working for you? more health payments on the way.

80-100 ; health payments or death.


Is this happiness?

Dream just stay in dream la... Why kepoh tell everyone...

Some people enjoy nice car nice house, let them be la. It’s their money. You may have different perception on kids edu, for them they might have the perception let them be independent apply for ptptn so they know the value of money. Each to their own.

yes. you very not shallow.

The world needs buyers to run?

If nobody spend then economy collapse

U see the big picture now? Of course there are those who refrain from spending or spend very little, but everyone cannot just stop spending.

If everyone just save their money in bank, then a recession would occur with businesses folding and unemployment sky rocket.

Case in point: This MCO.1-month lockdown, people cannot spend. See what already happened...

This post has been edited by Oklahoma: Jun 3 2020, 10:15 PM

Jangan kedekut sgt lulz

Also if nobody spend and solely just invest, then stocks will overvalue. Companies make no profit, then collapse, then you cannot invest.

If nobody spend, then property developer cannot develop houses, then no REITs and no property bubble, then you cannot invest.

you get the point

What’s the point of living if you’re not going to enjoy yourself? If someone gets more utility out of owning their dream car then so be it for them you only have one life you will never have the chance to be young and driving your dream car again. I don’t really see the point in hoarding money so your children or grandchildren can blow it away when you’re dead.

Recently MLM ppl approached you and asked you about your dreams izzit?

While they flex their flashy lifestyle?

y u butthurt

House and car are not solid enough for you?

biar orang nak tunjuk
kita tengok je

gen Z sudah amuk...

ini semua sarahan gen y always waant to brainwash want buy car must nt more than xxx budget/yearly income

Spend what you have on what you need, not what you dont have on what you want.

If you rich, sure, spend it, if not, why die die want spend?

This is what I learned to make life better, less stress, more money for emergency and future.

Don’t stress yourself about what people do with their money. Learn to make life better without unnecessary stress especially when it’s none of your business.

ap lu kesah, their money their prob la aduhaii

Because I keep seeing them post here no money, masalah social and so on after spend money they shouldnt on dream this dream that.

Many poor people suffering because no choice, they dont have to suffer because of dream this dream that, so unnecessary, can easily avoid kan?

Just offering my views, maybe can help someone. lol

I always dream someone will give me money lol.

the logic is, no point chasing & hording money if dun learn to lighten up & spend a little sometimes.

Yolo young drive civic. Baru ade gaya. Takkan old only drive for what. Enjoy lo, covid is here.

Dreams are what powers our hopes and aspirations and ambitions. Without a dream car, dream house, dream career, dream woman to reach for, we might not know the meaning of motivation, drive and we may fail to see the value of hard work and perseverance.

Too easily satisfied, and the human ambition is quenched, and with it, innovation and progress. Too easily placated, and we may never reach for the stars and land on the moon - and all the technology that was a by product of that dream - from microwave ovens to Velcro, may never have been invented.

Your mileage may vary.

This post has been edited by hksgmy: Jun 4 2020, 03:16 AM

Don't you wanna live in a better, nicer neighborhood? Do you see the area poor people live in? Dirty.

Can have better lasting dreams than dream car and dream house.

Yes, I'm sure that's valid according to your opinion, but then again, you cannot be the sole arbiter of truth and veracity - and every person is entitled to his or her view as to what constitutes a "better lasting" dream.

No harm having dream car dream house. Problem is how you go about achieving it. If you strive to do better then its good. If you get it by neglecting your essentials then that's bad. (beli kereta tapi makan Maggi).
But the worst of all is talk kok but do shit hoping the dream fall from the sky.

If no one chased after their dreams, then all of us will still be plebs

Is Hitler's dream good and should be copied? Since all subjective.

Not saying dream car dream house trend chasing is same as Hitler but its still shallow, vanity, ignorant consumerism that do more harm than good, unless you can afford it, but its still perpetuating a bad culture. Why not dream of electric car? Help fight climate change?

Better have dream to change the world, invent technology, fix politic, become doctor, etc.


chasing dream car dream house when you already have car and house is not really contributing to progress in my opinion. Its just shallow, vanity, ignorant consumerism.

If chasing dream to invent spaceship or new energy technology, then yes very noble.

just downgrade the dream car and dream house so may your dream come true..

I’m not sure how you made the tenuously tangential tie from a dream car or a dream house to Hitler, but yeah, whatever floats your boat okay?

there's a flaw in your thinking as well. Why keep all the money? it's the same with those guys hoarding after big properties and nicer cars but for your case it's paper.

Personally the most precious thing for me would be time. Money, investment, house, car, they aren't so important in life after all. Most importantly is spending as much time as i could with people who do matter to me. Give what you can and take what you need.

This post has been edited by kidmad: Jun 4 2020, 04:44 PM

Later daugther grew up charsiew study in exp college but no good grades alwiz change bf and big spender spending on rubbish handbag ..how does that a solid investment ?

whatever it is, just spend within your means lor. keep a lot oso no good and spend too much oso no good ma.

and up to you what you want to dream, just don't die and suffer can d.

They can dream, yours sudah jadi reality that's why you don't bother anymore... congratz.

This post has been edited by Capt. Marble: Jun 4 2020, 04:52 PM

that god my dream is hoarding money & appreciating assets.

This post has been edited by Boldnut: Jun 4 2020, 04:55 PM

Why you triggered? It's their money and their dreams anyway.

I didnt say keep, I said invest in important things that makes your future better.

That's why I invest in guiding her, not just throw money and forget, that's bad parenting.