Mar 28 2021, 11:59 PM
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 12 2020, 11:10 PM)
Hello everyone,
First of all, let me clarify some details for your reference.
1) I'm a muslim
2) My husband doesn't initiate sex or seems to be interested in me sexually.
3)He self confessed regarding his porn addiction which leads me to feel so down because of all the beautiful girls in porn and i know i couldn't compete with them.
4) I hope i could get out from this marriage because i felt so unwanted and alone. I'am extremely desperate for a human touch.
5) There is one time i install tinder just hoping to find someone that can have sex with me. But, halfway I chicken out because i'm afraid of god punishment even though it is so so sooooo tempting. It hurts so much.
6) I already tried for counselling, slow talk with my husband and try to be more sexy but all my efforts are in vain.
And the most painful thing is he will give my so many weird reasons like tell me to pray first, ignore about my sexual needs and still with his own way after I remind him constantly.
Please someone tell me how to get away from this marriage. I don't want to spend my entire life with him like this anymore. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
First of all, let me clarify some details for your reference.
1) I'm a muslim
2) My husband doesn't initiate sex or seems to be interested in me sexually.
3)He self confessed regarding his porn addiction which leads me to feel so down because of all the beautiful girls in porn and i know i couldn't compete with them.
4) I hope i could get out from this marriage because i felt so unwanted and alone. I'am extremely desperate for a human touch.
5) There is one time i install tinder just hoping to find someone that can have sex with me. But, halfway I chicken out because i'm afraid of god punishment even though it is so so sooooo tempting. It hurts so much.
6) I already tried for counselling, slow talk with my husband and try to be more sexy but all my efforts are in vain.
And the most painful thing is he will give my so many weird reasons like tell me to pray first, ignore about my sexual needs and still with his own way after I remind him constantly.
Please someone tell me how to get away from this marriage. I don't want to spend my entire life with him like this anymore. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 13 2020, 08:38 PM)
1.We got married because we are in love and in situation where both of us are secured financially and emotionally.
2. I think the same thing too. But, i already confronted him and tell him if he find other women attractive and want to have further relationship. Just let me know and let me go so i can find my own happiness.
I'm not the kind of girl who trying to hold on to a marriage if my partner is not in the same boat anymore.
I already ask him whats his fetish and how can i cater to his fantasies.
He say he like older women and voluptuous women. And sometimes he didn't think about sex with me because he tired. But, keep on playing with his dick while watching porn when I'm sleeping beside him.
I do not want to sound like full of myself but I do have curve and younger than him 2 years. I guess he just want to be married to me for convenience.
No sex before married for us.
It's true and now I'm struggling to find solution.
Thank you for your concern. I really appreciate it.
Since there is nothing heard from you, I hope you have resolved this issue. Here are my few cents.2. I think the same thing too. But, i already confronted him and tell him if he find other women attractive and want to have further relationship. Just let me know and let me go so i can find my own happiness.
I'm not the kind of girl who trying to hold on to a marriage if my partner is not in the same boat anymore.
I already ask him whats his fetish and how can i cater to his fantasies.
He say he like older women and voluptuous women. And sometimes he didn't think about sex with me because he tired. But, keep on playing with his dick while watching porn when I'm sleeping beside him.
I do not want to sound like full of myself but I do have curve and younger than him 2 years. I guess he just want to be married to me for convenience.
No sex before married for us.
It's true and now I'm struggling to find solution.
Thank you for your concern. I really appreciate it.
There are 2 kinds of people in this world, one who watch porn and second who lie about watching porn.
Let me state it out, this man have no respect left for you otherwise he wont be watching porn in front of you, unless he wants to hurt you. Is he gay or bisexual or having an affair, none of that matters. Do yourself a favour and get out of this torture. No need to cheat or sleep around because sooner or later when your cheating is made public, you will be the one loosing face not him.
Or you can be a vindictive person, hire a PI and get info on what he is up to. If he likes men, just report him to Jawi and sit back to enjoy the show.
Realistically, just get rid of this idiot from your life and move on. Life is too short to waste on those who dont want you to be a part of their life.
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