May 14 2020, 02:10 PM
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 12 2020, 11:10 PM)
4) I hope i could get out from this marriage because i felt so unwanted and alone. I'am extremely desperate for a human touch.
5) There is one time i install tinder just hoping to find someone that can have sex with me. But, halfway I chicken out because i'm afraid of god punishment even though it is so so sooooo tempting. It hurts so much.
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 12 2020, 11:10 PM)
2) My husband doesn't initiate sex or seems to be interested in me sexually.
3)He self confessed regarding his porn addiction which leads me to feel so down because of all the beautiful girls in porn and i know i couldn't compete with them.
you must find which reason is more likely then find solution.
porn is not a substitute for sex for any man unless he has physiological problem. normally he still need real sex even if it's not satisfactory to the twisted fantasies he build up in his mind.
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 13 2020, 08:29 PM)
169cm
65kg
if he was attracted to u at first your body changes will not matter much at the long run unless became ugly or repellent.65kg
no husband still attracted to his wife or any woman body for long time, but to memory, habits, comfort and love are what keep him relatively attracted to his wife, even if he seek more.
wife body and attractive behavior will only reduce the husband tendency to seek more, but familiarity will make other women more attractive to any man even if less beautiful than his wife, being in touch with more attractive women will increase such tendency to see his wife not attractive especially if he is using porn, but no fantasy could substitute real relation for all normal men.
QUOTE(FeelingEmpty @ May 13 2020, 08:38 PM)
1.We got married because we are in love and in situation where both of us are secured financially and emotionally.
2. I think the same thing too. But, i already confronted him and tell him if he find other women attractive and want to have further relationship. Just let me know and let me go so i can find my own happiness.
I'm not the kind of girl who trying to hold on to a marriage if my partner is not in the same boat anymore.
your last sentence is an an anchor if he is really seeking other relation or marriage, but feeling obligated towards you, his behavior could be to push you to initiate the divorce so he don't feel guilty for abandoning you after all this years, he may even think you will keep a kind of friendship.2. I think the same thing too. But, i already confronted him and tell him if he find other women attractive and want to have further relationship. Just let me know and let me go so i can find my own happiness.
I'm not the kind of girl who trying to hold on to a marriage if my partner is not in the same boat anymore.
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