In my late teen, my mom bring me to see a Thai monk who can see/calculate the future. The monk will made some calculation on a piece of paper and told the future. The monk told me that in the future, I will fallen in love with a girl who will use 'something' on me and the girl already have a BF. The monk want to give me an amulet so that the girl will 'took a pity' on me. But I don’t took the prediction seriously nor taking the amulet because I don’t believed it will happened to me, because have 2 principle which I take it seriously.
1) I will not flirt or take interest on girls that already have BF
2) I need to have a strong financial foundation before looking for GF.

Few years later, I went to work in one MNC company in Melaka. My dept. decided to outsource part of the dept. jobs to another company. This outsourced company stationed a few of its employee in my dept. All of them are girls, I was assigned to be a mentor to one of the girl (Let called her Ms Y), she from a wealthy family. Ms Y got besotted with me, while I only treat her as a colleague.

I have one particular principle that i take it seriously. Work is work, personal is personal. When I take leave, I will go back to my hometown & everything about my workplace & Melaka will be forgotten. I will only think about my family & my state. Then one fine day, when I go back to my hometown something very strange occurred. When I watching TV a sudden flashes of Ms Y image (Face+Body) appeared in my mind for a few second & then disappeared, same thing happened when I read newspaper & do other activity. The flashes of her images occurred every 2-3 hour, just like an advertisement (as if trying to make/induced me into thinking about her), without any effort from me to even think about her, my work place or the state i'm working in. I'm like WTF is happening to me, why her image keep appearing in my mind.

As a naive boy then, who had never fallen in loved I thought "Oh! This must have beeen love. I must have fallen in love with her that why her image keep appearing out of sudden in my mind." and I then decided to woo her when I go back to office. In term of look, she is slim & above average. Probably 7/10.

After a while and to my disappointment I founded out she actually already have a BF & I have become the 3rd party. Breaking all of my principles that I have laid for myself. I then remembered what the Thai monk told me a few years earlier and it occurred to me I have been BM as has been predicted.

Then I got an offer to further my studies in University & I take that opportunity to stopped contacting her & forget about her using my own strong will. On my 2nd year in the university. I had a vivid dream of her praying to a 'Dato Kong' with the intuitive msg received from 'Dato Kong', "She want you to contact her. It is urgent/important!". But I'm stand my ground. (At that time Mobile phone was not yet a popular thing, I previously used office & public phone to called her. So there no way she can contact me)

Few years later, while searching the internet for the 2 telno she gave me, I found out the telno actually belong to her family factory. The year that I got the dream from 'Dato Kong' is the year the factory going bankrupt, her family had have to move out so that the bank can take over the factory (Probably their house too).

After graduated, I started working in an Australian company in Klang valley. There is a friendly MILF (married with husband & child). When I displayed the attribute of shyness she will said in front of me something like "Wow! You so shy. I actually like shy guy" a couple of times. Then for a few days she will keep giving me a small packet (5cmx5cm) of Chinese cake, telling me she buy it for her family for breakfast but her family could not finished it. So she gave it to me. Only me. Not suspicious of anything I take & eat it. This going on for a 3-4 days & it make me wonder why she keep buying it, if her family can't finished it, she could simply stopped buying. But I did not remember feeling anything strange happened to me. Probably maybe just make me feeling horny....but it is normal for a guy to occasionally feel horny toward a female. But I don’t act on it. In term of look, she is slim & average. Probably 5/10.

Then 1-2 years later, my family go to visit a famous malay shaman in my state. For a check-up just in case anyone of us kena BM. The shaman is using an egg to check for BM. All visitor will have to take a queue no & wait for their turn. After I have been checked for BM, the egg shell show a clear image of a food plate and I have been told that I have been BM thru eating food. Then the shaman help me to clear the BM. The shaman did not tell who did it. But my suspicious fall on that MILF.

Now in my (new) current company, every morning I will always washed my mug with hot water before I used it. Scared kena BM again. Anyone that offered me food I will either gave it away or throw it. Unless it is given to all colleagues equally.

One of her uni mate is wooing her and always bragged that his family is wealthy and will always go overseas for vacation and he want my niece to be his gf. My niece ignore & avoid him. Then he BM my niece. Just like me, my niece will occasionally have a flashes of the guy image every few hour. My family is Theravada follower and will occasionally go to Thai Monastery for praying & participate in religious ceremony. One day a monk passed-by my niece & noticed something strange with my niece and advised that my niece take a bath with the water+flower+lime+etc that have been chanted with holy verses at the monastery. She take the bath & the flashes of the guy image then stopped and the BM was cleared. My niece then go to study at another college.

One day my sister laughing sound suddenly changed. When she laughed, it sounded like there a spooky echo accompany her normal laugh. Like a sync duet/pair, one is normal laugh & another sounded like a spooky/creepy ghost laugh but in sync. This going on for months. During a family checked-up by the Malay shaman, the egg shell shown a female ghost figure with sharp teeth and after the Malay shaman do some ritual to get rid of it. My sister laughing sound then return to normal. Was told by the shaman that the ghost want to make fren with my sister, that why it followed my sister.

If anyone of you have frens/relatives that suddenly having their laughing sound turned into a Spooky/Creepy/Ghostly, it is advise able to take them to see medium/shaman/monk for some cleansing.