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post Apr 11 2020, 06:02 AM, updated 6y ago

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Seriously, stop. STOP chasing women. I feel hopeless or saddened everytime I read sap stories here in this forum that angers me on how low these men go for vaginas.

Please bloody stop chasing women.
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post Apr 11 2020, 06:20 AM

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Sorry, u can't stop others from doing what they want to do, be it chasing other women or chasing for their dream.
The end.
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post Apr 11 2020, 06:28 AM

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Should just rename the whole vid as, why men should stay away from gold digger. Feel like the whole script is written by some insecure men to feel good about single.

And what's up with that you have to travel? Where does this notion originate from that you must be smart if you travel alot.
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post Apr 11 2020, 09:29 AM

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More of a self comfort video for those who got rejected
Get while you got the chance, 30s some people might be too late to find a relationship
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post Apr 11 2020, 01:22 PM

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Yes... work hard in the 20s, then when you’re in 30s with good financial status, sapu all the young and pretty 20s girls
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post Apr 11 2020, 02:27 PM

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It is okay if you are turning to chase men over women due to rejection. Descent men who are still chase women appreciate your effort to eliminate the competition. On the other hand, women find themselves easier to shortlist their potential love partner as well.
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post Apr 11 2020, 02:48 PM

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QUOTE(J1g54w @ Apr 11 2020, 01:22 PM)
Yes... work hard in the 20s, then when you’re in 30s with good financial status, sapu all the young and pretty 20s girls
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^Quoted for truth.

"Remove sex from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies have nothing to offer in relationships'
Remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies won't see a reason to be in that relationship"
-Trevor Noah
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post Apr 11 2020, 07:52 PM

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QUOTE(Fanvil1534 @ Apr 11 2020, 02:48 PM)
^Quoted for truth.

"Remove sex from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies have nothing to offer in relationships'
Remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies won't see a reason to be in that relationship"
-Trevor Noah
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Because Noah here only values sex and in his belief, women only values money.

Look, u still hang out with your lads in a beer out is not because you trying to shove ur dick into their asses and likely if you are better to do financially; you are footing the bills.

Why if you can do that with lads, but discriminate women? Answer is, u r just insecure. U use money to justify ur low self-confidence. I do not disagree. It could very well be the truth.

U guys should know very well that there are many broke ass useless ah beng getting laid right? That's no Ferrari they driving there yo!
Now, go figure out what's going on there. laugh.gif

Once u figure that one, then maybe you will find out there are more reason how people come together. =D

Anyway, a good question to ask is, how much money u need to earn before you find back ur balls? IMO, if you don't hv confidence; it's very unlikely that you gonna earn that money too. nod.gif
A dude that got the able to get the job done, walk up to the boss telling him to make you his VP or...have no problem with girls.
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post Apr 20 2020, 04:03 PM

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post Apr 21 2020, 11:09 PM

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If you are not dating in your late teens and 20s, you are missing out on a lot.

If you wait until your 30s to start dating, you will end up either a bachelor for life as the pool of eligible women around your age dwindles or get divorced by a younger girl a few years into your married life due to inexperience and super huge age gap (most cultural references she makes won’t make much sense to you, aka generation gap).

Start dating from young as the experience you built up from failed relationships will propel you forward in your quest to find the right girl and keeping her.

You can’t start going to school only in your 20s. It would be too late for you to catch up and learn how to read.

Same thing with dating. You can’t start too late or it will be too late for you to catch up and learn anything.

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post Apr 22 2020, 05:28 AM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Apr 11 2020, 07:52 PM)
Because Noah here only values sex and in his belief, women only values money.

Look, u still hang out with your lads in a beer out is not because you trying to shove ur dick into their asses and likely if you are better to do financially; you are footing the bills.

Why if you can do that with lads, but discriminate women? Answer is, u r just insecure. U use money to justify ur low self-confidence. I do not disagree. It could very well be the truth.

U guys should know very well that there are many broke ass useless ah beng getting laid right? That's no Ferrari they driving there yo!
Now, go figure out what's going on there.  laugh.gif

Once u figure that one, then maybe you will find out there are more reason how people come together. =D

Anyway, a good question to ask is, how much money u need to earn before you find back ur balls? IMO, if you don't hv confidence; it's very unlikely that you gonna earn that money too.  nod.gif
A dude that got the able to get the job done, walk up to the boss telling him to make you his VP or...have no problem with girls.
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Agree.

If you want a good relationship, you have to earn it, not by paying it.
That is some damn low confidence mindset.
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post Apr 22 2020, 08:30 AM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Apr 11 2020, 07:52 PM)
Because Noah here only values sex and in his belief, women only values money.

Look, u still hang out with your lads in a beer out is not because you trying to shove ur dick into their asses and likely if you are better to do financially; you are footing the bills.
True... thats why i rather hang out with ladies i dont mind foot the bill on them than on man hahhaa

Why if you can do that with lads, but discriminate women? Answer is, u r just insecure. U use money to justify ur low self-confidence. I do not disagree. It could very well be the truth.

U guys should know very well that there are many broke ass useless ah beng getting laid right? That's no Ferrari they driving there yo!
Now, go figure out what's going on there.  laugh.gif

Once u figure that one, then maybe you will find out there are more reason how people come together. =D

Anyway, a good question to ask is, how much money u need to earn before you find back ur balls? IMO, if you don't hv confidence; it's very unlikely that you gonna earn that money too.  nod.gif
A dude that got the able to get the job done, walk up to the boss telling him to make you his VP or...have no problem with girls.
Girls wear skirt... kakang abit or open blouse 2 buttons enough to get  boss sliver also come out sure on the spot make VP or director..... men nothing to show Nowadays many girls in office wear tight short skirts very tempting
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post Apr 22 2020, 12:03 PM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 22 2020, 08:30 AM)

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smile.gif smile.gif Your cross-hair seems to be 24/7 switched on all the time.
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post Apr 22 2020, 06:49 PM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 22 2020, 08:30 AM)
True... thats why i rather hang out with ladies i dont mind foot the bill on them than on man hahhaa

Girls wear skirt... kakang abit or open blouse 2 buttons enough to get  boss sliver also come out sure on the spot make VP or director..... men nothing to show Nowadays many girls in office wear tight short skirts very tempting

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that's the part I find it VERY weird. biggrin.gif

This is where discipline in professionalism and objective thinking comes in.

Sigh...When they do "that", hv to choose between the best interest of the organization and getting laid.

I don't mind if she is really over achiever. It doesn't have to be mutually exclusive.
It's just most of the time; unfortunately NOT.

Most overachiever, don't even hv to put make up; Their work is just elegant enough to give me a hard on.

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post Apr 22 2020, 07:08 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Apr 22 2020, 06:49 PM)
that's the part I find it VERY weird.  biggrin.gif

This is where discipline in professionalism and objective thinking comes in.

Sigh...When they do "that", hv to choose between the best interest of the organization and getting laid.

I don't mind if she is really over achiever. It doesn't have to be mutually exclusive.
It's just most of the time; unfortunately NOT.

Most overachiever, don't even hv to put make up; Their work is just elegant enough to give me a hard on.
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Hahhaa true
Just too bad i dont have the previlege to experience those when i was the mgr / decision maker.. i faced all batang everyday....
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post Apr 22 2020, 10:45 PM

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30s the best time for dating. Trust me, 20 something girls would rather date older successful secure and mature men than immature guys their age.
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post Apr 23 2020, 04:50 AM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Apr 22 2020, 07:08 PM)
Hahhaa true
Just too bad i dont have the previlege to experience those when i was the mgr / decision maker.. i faced all batang everyday....
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Just need to create a "fast-track" career path under ur business unit.

All u need to do is to keep requesting more head count for junior position and interview them.

The cost is at the expense of ur position and organization.

This is a very very bad time to do that. Everyone is reducing head count. You would be glad to keep ur job. Don't mega_shok.gif
Now, even TF also read some "book" hopefully get close enough to god and get bail out from government.
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post Apr 28 2020, 01:33 AM

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This is the very speech that will trigger every feminist and white knight snowflake out there
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post Apr 30 2020, 12:39 PM

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QUOTE(johndoe999 @ Apr 22 2020, 10:45 PM)
30s the best time for dating. Trust me, 20 something girls would rather date older successful secure and mature men than immature guys their age.
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mixed response really

some are turned off by older guys and think they are uncles
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Yeah, yeah...to those who buys this b*llshit and believe that they are part of "MGTOW", then they confuse going "MGTOW" way and going their way.

A good question to ask is; WHO THE F*CK these dude think they are to decide when a good time to start f*cking?

If u were to ask me, I will say a good time is when I feel horny. =D

Anyway, I have no problem with "MGTOW". There more the better. In fact, stay in celibacy till u r 50's. Less man more share. I have more problem with actual men going the own way putting up competition than some idiots trying to figure when to "get horny".

hahahahhaa
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Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...


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QUOTE(stille nacht @ May 4 2020, 12:26 PM)
Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...
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If you want to go that far, then there are limitless possibilities.
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Agree! 20s is your golden time to learn & succeed, you have the most energy. Treasure it for those who want to be successful in life. Are you afraid you won't have woman once you're
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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Once you start fucking, you can't stop. Same with masturbating

QUOTE(stille nacht @ May 4 2020, 12:26 PM)
Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...
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Totally agree
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post Dec 20 2020, 02:42 PM

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QUOTE(kei18kun @ Dec 20 2020, 02:34 PM)
Once you start fucking, you can't stop. Same with masturbating
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At first quantity > quality

Later quality > quantity
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Dec 20 2020, 02:42 PM)
At first quantity > quality

Later quality > quantity
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Disagree with you bro, after 15 years of relationship, for me it's still quantity > quality. If can few times a day for me. Well woman is the opposite
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QUOTE(Fanvil1534 @ Apr 11 2020, 02:48 PM)
^Quoted for truth.

"Remove sex from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies have nothing to offer in relationships'
Remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies won't see a reason to be in that relationship"
-Trevor Noah
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QUOTE(precept66 @ Apr 20 2020, 04:03 PM)
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both of these quotes are honest fact..

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QUOTE(Fanvil1534 @ Apr 11 2020, 06:02 AM)


Seriously, stop. STOP chasing women. I feel hopeless or saddened everytime I read sap stories here in this forum that angers me on how low these men go for vaginas.

Please bloody stop chasing women.
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Better to date extensively and explore when younger, so you eventually know what you want when you are older. tongue.gif brows.gif
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if i could go back to my teens, i'd wish i fool around more in high school.
the reason why we brought up to be introvert and shy, we don't want to rock the boat after being brainswashed by parents for years, we also observe people around to be nice as well, so we adopted the feminine attitude.

Stop chasing women, and let them chase you.
It's not going to happen. I REPEAT.
Even if you were Leonardo Dicaprio or Brad Pitt.
Look at one of those, good looking and successful still get destroyed by women.

however, you can LEAD women, INITIATE but not constantly chase them.
you want to make enough interest so that she will reciprocate, as many women do not approach guys even they know they like you as they feared about rejections, HELL ALOT

it's your job as a man, if you don't want to go through the courtships, you can always go back to prostitution. We have no problems.
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Late 20s is the best time to find your soulmate
But this vary with different people, some prefer to stay single
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post Jan 7 2021, 08:55 AM

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QUOTE(Danq @ Jan 2 2021, 01:50 AM)
30s the best time for dating. Trust me, 20 something girls would rather date older successful secure and mature men than immature guys their age.
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Actually, 40s and 50s is also a good time for dating. As a 20something, I prefer matching up & meeting older, successful guys on Tinder, BeSmitten, TanTan and Coffee Meets Bagel.

20s is the best time for guys to start concentrating on their career, and have just casuals. They are building their skills and savings.

Older guys are always naturally more appealing to girls, as we look towards guys - even as equals - to be protectors and nurturers. Older guys are confident (based on their past successes) and wiser (based on their past failures), and that sort of thing is kind of sexy.

Happy New Year! smile.gif
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Well for me, i focus my 20s establishing my company. Im in my 30 now, and i regret nothing. I lived my life just like Harvey in 'The Suit' series. But remember, not everyone is the same. I remained single because I can't be together with the girl that I'm in relationship since 2007 due to racial and religion issue. So both of us keep it casual, and we meet up once in a while, but at the same time remain focused on our own life.
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Not chasing is one thing, polishing your skills is another.
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on the contrary, i could be in the minor group, if i can go back in time, i would at least know more female friends and if better, get in a relationship, instead of focusing on my study and games.

Now at my current age, even as a bank manager, it is hard to find someone available or someone with less personality problem. Well, just a regret point in life.
Those who said focus in upskilling and things like that, lol, there is 24 hours a day, seriously depends on how you manage your time. And learning never stop until the day you die.

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 17 2021, 08:36 AM)
on the contrary, i could be in the minor group, if i can go back in time, i would at least know more female friends and if better, get in a relationship, instead of focusing on my study and games.

Now at my current age, even as a bank manager, it is hard to find someone available or someone with less personality problem. Well, just a regret point in life.
Those who said focus in upskilling and things like that, lol, there is 24 hours a day, seriously depends on how you manage your time. And learning never stop until the day you die.
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wheres your materialistic ex story?
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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right, teens to early 20s are the best time to cultivate your cad level.
honestly in order to become a cad, you've to mix with cads
once you got out working, a lot of jobs dont expose you to cadness.
unless you're working as a bartender or photographer, or brothel handler

mixing with women can get you lots of experiences, which is what ive been doing now.
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wheres your materialistic ex story?
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materialistic ex? no, it is more of some other problem, which i was saying personality and "general view on things" problem.

 

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