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 Why Men Should Stay Single In Their 20’s, STOP CHASING WOMEN

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andrekua2
post May 4 2020, 11:09 AM

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Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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post May 4 2020, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...


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post May 4 2020, 12:32 PM

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QUOTE(stille nacht @ May 4 2020, 12:26 PM)
Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...
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If you want to go that far, then there are limitless possibilities.
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post Dec 20 2020, 02:32 PM

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Agree! 20s is your golden time to learn & succeed, you have the most energy. Treasure it for those who want to be successful in life. Are you afraid you won't have woman once you're
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post Dec 20 2020, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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Once you start fucking, you can't stop. Same with masturbating

QUOTE(stille nacht @ May 4 2020, 12:26 PM)
Just a reminder...
Some of the result for fucking around, diseases, beaten up by someone or people cos fucking around, bad grades...
Eventho some of them lucky enough to get out fine or with great result... doesn't mean we need to be carelessly doing the same thing...
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Totally agree
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post Dec 20 2020, 02:42 PM

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QUOTE(kei18kun @ Dec 20 2020, 02:34 PM)
Once you start fucking, you can't stop. Same with masturbating
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At first quantity > quality

Later quality > quantity
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post Dec 20 2020, 03:02 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Dec 20 2020, 02:42 PM)
At first quantity > quality

Later quality > quantity
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Disagree with you bro, after 15 years of relationship, for me it's still quantity > quality. If can few times a day for me. Well woman is the opposite
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post Dec 20 2020, 05:04 PM

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QUOTE(Fanvil1534 @ Apr 11 2020, 02:48 PM)
^Quoted for truth.

"Remove sex from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies have nothing to offer in relationships'
Remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies won't see a reason to be in that relationship"
-Trevor Noah
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QUOTE(precept66 @ Apr 20 2020, 04:03 PM)
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both of these quotes are honest fact..

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post Dec 20 2020, 09:01 PM

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QUOTE(Fanvil1534 @ Apr 11 2020, 06:02 AM)


Seriously, stop. STOP chasing women. I feel hopeless or saddened everytime I read sap stories here in this forum that angers me on how low these men go for vaginas.

Please bloody stop chasing women.
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Better to date extensively and explore when younger, so you eventually know what you want when you are older. tongue.gif brows.gif
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post Jan 5 2021, 12:24 AM

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if i could go back to my teens, i'd wish i fool around more in high school.
the reason why we brought up to be introvert and shy, we don't want to rock the boat after being brainswashed by parents for years, we also observe people around to be nice as well, so we adopted the feminine attitude.

Stop chasing women, and let them chase you.
It's not going to happen. I REPEAT.
Even if you were Leonardo Dicaprio or Brad Pitt.
Look at one of those, good looking and successful still get destroyed by women.

however, you can LEAD women, INITIATE but not constantly chase them.
you want to make enough interest so that she will reciprocate, as many women do not approach guys even they know they like you as they feared about rejections, HELL ALOT

it's your job as a man, if you don't want to go through the courtships, you can always go back to prostitution. We have no problems.
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post Jan 5 2021, 09:21 PM

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Late 20s is the best time to find your soulmate
But this vary with different people, some prefer to stay single
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post Jan 7 2021, 08:55 AM

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QUOTE(Danq @ Jan 2 2021, 01:50 AM)
30s the best time for dating. Trust me, 20 something girls would rather date older successful secure and mature men than immature guys their age.
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Actually, 40s and 50s is also a good time for dating. As a 20something, I prefer matching up & meeting older, successful guys on Tinder, BeSmitten, TanTan and Coffee Meets Bagel.

20s is the best time for guys to start concentrating on their career, and have just casuals. They are building their skills and savings.

Older guys are always naturally more appealing to girls, as we look towards guys - even as equals - to be protectors and nurturers. Older guys are confident (based on their past successes) and wiser (based on their past failures), and that sort of thing is kind of sexy.

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post Feb 15 2021, 04:32 PM

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Well for me, i focus my 20s establishing my company. Im in my 30 now, and i regret nothing. I lived my life just like Harvey in 'The Suit' series. But remember, not everyone is the same. I remained single because I can't be together with the girl that I'm in relationship since 2007 due to racial and religion issue. So both of us keep it casual, and we meet up once in a while, but at the same time remain focused on our own life.
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post Feb 17 2021, 12:58 AM

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Not chasing is one thing, polishing your skills is another.
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post Feb 17 2021, 08:36 AM

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on the contrary, i could be in the minor group, if i can go back in time, i would at least know more female friends and if better, get in a relationship, instead of focusing on my study and games.

Now at my current age, even as a bank manager, it is hard to find someone available or someone with less personality problem. Well, just a regret point in life.
Those who said focus in upskilling and things like that, lol, there is 24 hours a day, seriously depends on how you manage your time. And learning never stop until the day you die.

This post has been edited by gundamsp01: Feb 17 2021, 08:37 AM
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post Feb 17 2021, 02:45 PM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 17 2021, 08:36 AM)
on the contrary, i could be in the minor group, if i can go back in time, i would at least know more female friends and if better, get in a relationship, instead of focusing on my study and games.

Now at my current age, even as a bank manager, it is hard to find someone available or someone with less personality problem. Well, just a regret point in life.
Those who said focus in upskilling and things like that, lol, there is 24 hours a day, seriously depends on how you manage your time. And learning never stop until the day you die.
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wheres your materialistic ex story?
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post Feb 17 2021, 02:47 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ May 4 2020, 11:09 AM)
Yeap, I think I will forever regret that I didn't date before in my teens.

Teenage years should be used to fuck around, messed up and become wiser when you are in your late 20s or early 30s.

Nowadays many date in their mid 20s, messed up, flash marriage, flash divorce.
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right, teens to early 20s are the best time to cultivate your cad level.
honestly in order to become a cad, you've to mix with cads
once you got out working, a lot of jobs dont expose you to cadness.
unless you're working as a bartender or photographer, or brothel handler

mixing with women can get you lots of experiences, which is what ive been doing now.
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post Feb 17 2021, 02:53 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Feb 17 2021, 02:45 PM)
wheres your materialistic ex story?
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materialistic ex? no, it is more of some other problem, which i was saying personality and "general view on things" problem.

 

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