Well, this is a serious question, do you (or any forumers that in a relationship) just stick to your partner or does hook around with someone other than your partner as well?
I am currently in a 6 years++ relationship, but my bf always secretly hooking around with others through Grindr account since year 1. Tired of fighting about it and now i just.. don't give a F about it anymore.
I've discussed this with my bf on the 5th year of our relationship,
1) Why weren't we just breakup so you can do it freely?
= Because i love you and i wanna live & share my life with you.
2) If you really can't change, why not we do an open-relationship?
= No, i don't like the idea of you being touch by someone else.
3) Do you think a 3s-relationship may solve this?
= No unless the third person only for me and he can't do anything with you.
I've come to think, Malaysian gay community is indeed very toxic, but i may be wrong, maybe this is normal and i just have to adapt?
I believe you know the answer to your questions. It seems very double standard, if you ask me and not an equal partnership.
If you are comfortable with it, then is fine.
If it was me, I would not be able to accept it.