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skyblue8
post Mar 20 2020, 07:15 PM

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Hi all,

Thanks to Giga for starting this forum here โค๏ธ
I just found this today haha

My name is Derek. Happy to contribute to this forum!

I have a bf of 13 years and I'm out to my family. Feel free to ask any questions!


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post Apr 3 2020, 11:16 PM

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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Mar 20 2020, 07:56 PM)
Hi Derek!  icon_rolleyes.gif You guys have been together for so long! I assume you guys live together? How are you guys holding up during this MCO?
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Sorry, just saw this today. We are good.

No we don't live together. I am with my folks and he is with his.
And we haven't met for 2 weeks! bruce.gif
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post Apr 10 2020, 01:41 PM

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QUOTE(rankalee @ Apr 10 2020, 01:19 PM)
Ah.. xD haha. Yeah.
Does it have to be done at the psychologists place or can i do it online? Honestly I'm still in between. xD And helpful links that I should check out? Thanks. smile.gif
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Perhaps you have a fetish. Cambridge define it as ยท behaviour in which someone shows a sexual interest in an object, or in a part of the body other than the sexual organs

So some people like feet or dress up as nurses, things like that. Nothing wrong with it, just personal preference. It's like something that you do to make the sex more exciting.

Transgender means you feel more like the opposite sex than the sex you are born with. Is this what you feel? If you are a guy, you feel like you relate more as a woman?
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post Apr 14 2020, 12:13 PM

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QUOTE(Messiahword @ Apr 14 2020, 11:00 AM)
I have a dilemma. I just make it short. If you're the 3rd party will you interfere into your married lady boss relationship? Let say she likes you and have been WhatsApp you many times.
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As you work there, things may get complicated and uncomfortable. You know what they say, you don't mix personal and professional lives together.
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post Apr 21 2020, 11:23 PM

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QUOTE(rankalee @ Apr 20 2020, 03:11 PM)
Yep, seems like it. So far make up no. But I do have a wig. If that counts.. Oh. I don't think i would go to that extent of dressing up and peeping upskirts.  sweat.gif  Yeah. Staying with parents actually still. xD haha. Erh. early 30s. Hehe..
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It seems like it's more like a fetish or hobby that you enjoy. It doesn't seem to affect your personal life (with family and friends), sexually (you still like woman) or socially, so I think is fine. Unless you are spending way too much time on it, then it's unhealthy.

For now, during MCO we have more time, so I suppose you wanting to dress up more is not unusual too.
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post Apr 22 2020, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(rankalee @ Apr 22 2020, 01:37 AM)
Well, if you read back a few replies I did mention it started since I was young.. xD So yeah.. As I said, I was caught a few times, like I think 3 or 4 times. Hobby? Maybe.  rclxm9.gif  laugh.gif Only during MCO. Most days only like twice a week. Depending. lol. Is that considered frequent?  sweat.gif  hmm.gif
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Is like masturbation lo. We do it since young. Also maybe get caught. Again, I believe that as long as we are not too obsessed about it and it doesn't affect our daily lives, it's fine.

Masturbate 2 or 3 times - too frequent? Everyday is too frequent? No right or wrong, depends on individual. Key point is not to let it affect our lives too much.
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post May 18 2020, 08:45 PM

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QUOTE(rankalee @ May 18 2020, 08:27 PM)
So meaning anyone who dresses in clothes different to their own sex will be arrested regardless of race? ohmy.gif
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In public, for Muslims, then yes. Correct me if I am wrong.

But you are not gonna wear in public right? If just indoors, so no issues there.
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post May 20 2020, 10:00 AM

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We welcome everybody, regardless of sexual orientation and identity. As long as we are respectful and sincere, then feel free to ask questions and express yourself here.
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post May 27 2020, 11:59 AM

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QUOTE(hc7840 @ May 27 2020, 09:56 AM)
Gay will tell you he is born gay, maybe never piap the gf so she cheated on him
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Did he say he's gay now? Does he have a bf? If he's just hanging out with the gay guys in gym doesn't make him gay!
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post May 29 2020, 10:21 PM

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QUOTE(WalidAnakBulus @ May 29 2020, 04:18 PM)
Well, this is a serious question, do you (or any forumers that in a relationship) just stick to your partner or does hook around with someone other than your partner as well?

I am currently in a 6 years++ relationship, but my bf always secretly hooking around with others through Grindr account since year 1. Tired of fighting about it and now i just.. don't give a F about it anymore.

I've discussed this with my bf on the 5th year of our relationship,
1) Why weren't we just breakup so you can do it freely?
= Because i love you and i wanna live & share my life with you.
2) If you really can't change, why not we do an open-relationship?
= No, i don't like the idea of you being touch by someone else.
3) Do you think a 3s-relationship may solve this?
= No unless the third person only for me and he can't do anything with you.

I've come to think, Malaysian gay community is indeed very toxic, but i may be wrong, maybe this is normal and i just have to adapt?
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I believe you know the answer to your questions. It seems very double standard, if you ask me and not an equal partnership.

If you are comfortable with it, then is fine.

If it was me, I would not be able to accept it.


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post Jun 4 2020, 07:51 PM

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QUOTE(69420666 @ Jun 4 2020, 05:47 PM)
Hi there guys! I have a friend that I think might be gay. I notice he followed some hot male model accounts on instagram and post some instastories about how the world is judging for who he likes sexually..

My question is, how do I tell my friend that I support him and always be there for him? He is currently ostracized from his extended family.
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Wow you are a good friend. He's lucky to know you!

You can say that I'm your friend no matter what and will always be by his side. Or maybe you can share with him something that he doesn't know about you.. Like some big or funny mistake you did then he is more open to share about his sexuality
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post Jun 4 2020, 08:01 PM

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QUOTE(Oklahoma @ Jun 4 2020, 07:40 PM)
Hi question, is it normal for gay guy to hit on every guy?

I got hit on by a gay guy one night. He came close and touched my face and invited me for sleepover.

Im certain he's gay.

Does that mean im hot? Im straight as far as im concerned, although I admire looking at hot men like George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Robert Downey Jr, Chris Evans
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Yes you should be flattered ๐Ÿ˜

Is the a friend or stranger? Have you spoken to him before? How do you know he's gay?

Just do what you are comfortable with. You can accept or reject his invitation nicely ๐Ÿ™‚



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post Jul 4 2020, 09:39 AM

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QUOTE(GetHappy @ Jul 4 2020, 01:37 AM)
I am a straight guy and i feel theres a need to say that i support you all in the LGBTIQ+ community on who you are as a person. There shouldnt be discrimination in the society, and everyone should be treated as the way one would like to be treated back.

I have close gay friends who always joke asking me to come out but we are all joking (i hope they are too lol). But yes, support for u alls!
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Thanks so much for your support!

We are all individuals and we should respect each other as a human being regardless of race, sexual orientation, religion, etc.

Thanks again! You seem like a cool and chill guy who is comfortable with your own sexuality and can joke about it!
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post Jul 5 2020, 09:13 PM

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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Jul 5 2020, 07:01 PM)
Gender segregation at cinemas starts today in Terengganu.

Good job Terengganu for being LGBT-friendly. wub.gif
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I thought that this has been for some time already?
Or is that Kelantan?
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post Aug 4 2020, 09:11 AM

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There are more important issues than arresting us.

And there are so many of us, about 3% of the population which is almost 1 million ... No place can hold us! hahaha
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post Aug 4 2020, 11:20 AM

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QUOTE(luvjim @ Aug 4 2020, 09:30 AM)
is there any local lgbt forum?
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This here also is a forum...

Or do you mean a closed one, not open to all?
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post Aug 7 2020, 08:56 AM

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QUOTE(spider4567 @ Aug 7 2020, 12:42 AM)
Hi all, recently i just found out got this LGBT tread here so first of all, i want thank TS for opening this thread. It makes LGBT knows that each other are exists and having some chit chats here.

Here i come to share a youtuber in Malaysia who made videos about LGBT in Malaysia, it is Chinese and do not have Malay/English subs (sorry for that). But this youtuber really supports LGBT and after watching her interviews with LGBT people, really made me feel that we should not treat LGBT as different/sick people.

They really just want to be themselves and gender/sexual orientation is not a choice, they are born with it. Lets say for Transgender, i really feel if they can choose which gender to be before being born they would have chose. And god will always love you because they are the one who made you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnA57FiqKNY...80TNjb&index=16

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8q-fIXbCkaw...80TNjb&index=20

these 2 videos really made me cry
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Thanks Spider for sharing this. I guess you have quite many LGBT close friends as you are very kind, understanding and supportive!

Thanks for your love! โค๏ธ

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post Aug 13 2020, 10:46 AM

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post Aug 16 2020, 11:10 AM

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QUOTE(bani_prime @ Aug 16 2020, 10:59 AM)
May i ask communities here? Is g spot really exist in male. It is simply a myth or science. Is it true...when it hit...all body feel trembled
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Yes it does exists.

You can ask bottoms and they will tell you that it definitely is real.
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post Aug 26 2020, 07:12 PM

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QUOTE(RaeZhiHao @ Aug 26 2020, 06:18 PM)
i dont know why majority of the Gay still hunting for the best sex experience eventhough they have partner. Why cant they faithful like many of the heteroes.

You want people to respect and you  are equally faithful as the hetero group. I didnt say ALL hetero are faithful...maybe 50% 50% but yet in Gay community, its like 90% unfaithful. how can a gay relationship last longer than the hetero ......quite many when ask, its like just one year or going second year..... out of 10 couples, maybe one last more than 5 years...the rest...... months or one or two years....

I just hope the LGBT community to control your sexsual desire and proof you are equally good as the hetero and love conquer everything.....
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Hi, appreciate your thoughts on this.

First thing, we don't have to prove anything. If there is no marriage certificate and children, what do you think the faithfulness of the husbands and wife would be?

Also, if we treated equally in the eyes of the law, if we can get married and have children perhaps, gay relationships would last longer. And there wouldn't be fake or forced marriages.

Again all these is debatable.

What I want to say is, it's not comparable. We don't have to follow what heterosexuals do. There's nothing to prove. To each his own as long as no one is hurt in the process.

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