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TSinternaldisputes
post Feb 13 2020, 12:01 PM, updated 2 months ago

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Since we have a lot of different groups here, I figured we should make one for LGBT too. Contrary to what our ex-tourism minister had claimed, we do actually exist. sweat.gif

Just a little introduction about myself: You guys can call me Giga. I'm a 28 years old malay gay guy currently living in KL. Nice to meet you guys!

Feel free to use this thread to discuss LGBT issues in the country and beyond. Anyone with any questions about the LGBT community feel free to drop your questions here too. We will try to answer as best as we can.

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post Feb 13 2020, 12:15 PM

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post Feb 13 2020, 12:17 PM

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That's great. We've pm'ed back and forth before. He's a nice guy. biggrin.gif
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post Feb 13 2020, 12:18 PM

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Welcome bro.
When you realize that your sexuality is different?
ListenToTheWind
post Feb 13 2020, 12:28 PM

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I'm just worry that the discussion get too obscene. drool.gif
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post Feb 13 2020, 12:32 PM

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post Feb 13 2020, 12:41 PM

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QUOTE(seventwo @ Feb 13 2020, 12:18 PM)
Welcome bro.
When you realize that your sexuality is different?
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Probably when I was 7/8? Because I remember feeling some type of way looking at wrestling shows on TV.

QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Feb 13 2020, 12:28 PM)
I'm just worry that the discussion get too obscene. drool.gif
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Probably. I don't think it will get more obscene than the discussion on /k though. innocent.gif

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post Feb 13 2020, 01:43 PM

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post Feb 13 2020, 01:47 PM

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internaldisputes i have amended the title as it will be more for discussion rather than 'networking'.

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post Feb 13 2020, 01:56 PM

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Good day, may I ask a question please?

I've noticed some lesbian or gay couples have.. Roles. For example, one tends to be more masculine and the other tend to be more feminine?

Sometimes for some couples this is rather obvious and for some others it is not apparent. I usually notice this in Chinese couples, but less so in Caucasian couples. (Just my casual unscientific observation).

So I am wondering does this role thing apply to most lesbian or gay couples? Just that some are more apparent than others?
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post Feb 13 2020, 02:06 PM

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I'm not into lgbt but I know a friend of mine that was gay and his parents did not approve the relationship. lastly he shifted out of the house and rarely goes home ever since unless parents ask him to come back for dinner etc.

his parents actually loves him a lot but he views his bf more important than his parents. btw both of them together I think about 4 years already

how do you all cope with such situation? share some suggestion then maybe I can tell him or his parents how to be at peace together smile.gif
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post Feb 13 2020, 02:18 PM

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post Feb 13 2020, 03:21 PM

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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Feb 13 2020, 12:17 PM)
That's great. We've pm'ed back and forth before. He's a nice guy.  biggrin.gif
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post Feb 13 2020, 03:32 PM

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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Feb 13 2020, 12:41 PM)
Probably when I was 7/8? Because I remember feeling some type of way looking at wrestling shows on TV.
Probably. I don't think it will get more obscene than the discussion on /k though.  innocent.gif
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haha it's a bit early tho you found out. biggrin.gif but itโ€™s okay
Do have a question here, since you re Malaysian, i believe you should know about it, where is, there is one transgender (man to woman) have performed worship but in ways that the guy do not follow the true teachings.

I do not want you to speak from a religious point of view, so what do you think about this from a human right and moral standpoint. smile.gif
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post Feb 13 2020, 03:39 PM

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QUOTE(kl920930 @ Feb 13 2020, 12:36 PM)
I'm not into lgbt but I know a friend of mine that was gay and his parents did not approve the relationship. lastly he shifted out of the house and rarely goes home ever since unless parents ask him to come back for dinner etc.

his parents actually loves him a lot but he views his bf more important than his parents. btw both of them together I think about 4 years already

how do you all cope with such situation? share some suggestion then maybe I can tell him or his parents how to be at peace together smile.gif
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Maybe his parents want grandson/granddaughter
Or who will take care of them (parents) when they're old, his son's bf
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post Feb 13 2020, 04:17 PM

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QUOTE(Captain89 @ Feb 13 2020, 03:39 PM)
Maybe his parents want grandson/granddaughter
Or who will take care of them (parents) when they're old, his son's bf
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they have one daughter too which is currently in a relationship

I think the issue is because parents cannot accept son is gay and also their family is quite well known for socializing

but when I'm around them and their son is present, they don't talk much to each other

feels like they want to ask their son to stay back in house but on the other hand giving him silent treatment when he is at home
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QUOTE(kl920930 @ Feb 13 2020, 02:47 PM)
they have one daughter too which is currently in a relationship

I think the issue is because parents cannot accept son is gay and also their family is quite well known for socializing

but when I'm around them and their son is present, they don't talk much to each other

feels like they want to ask their son to stay back in house but on the other hand giving him silent treatment when he is at home
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Complicated shet over here hmmm
True also, no parents want their child to go against nature
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post Feb 13 2020, 04:50 PM

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QUOTE(Captain89 @ Feb 13 2020, 04:27 PM)
Complicated shet over here hmmm
True also, no parents want their child to go against nature
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that's true.. I would also be in shock too

wondering how other lgbt's here announce to their family and how their family respond to them

also how they change their family's perception towards lgbt behavior
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post Feb 13 2020, 05:29 PM

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QUOTE(kl920930 @ Feb 13 2020, 03:20 PM)
that's true.. I would also be in shock too

wondering how other lgbt's here announce to their family and how their family respond to them

also how they change their family's perception towards lgbt behavior
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Usually they will keep it to themselves. I have a few friends like this too, and they said it's better not to tell
When anyone asked about relationships, just ignore it
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post Feb 13 2020, 05:43 PM

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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Feb 13 2020, 12:41 PM)
Probably when I was 7/8? Because I remember feeling some type of way looking at wrestling shows on TV.
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Ok, i better make sure my son x watch any wrestling show

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