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TSshaaaaa P
post Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM

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Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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post Feb 9 2020, 03:47 AM

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QUOTE(RadenMasIV @ Jan 20 2020, 05:34 PM)
Your parent know about you leaving Islam? Wonder during your growing up years your parent didn't send you to Fardhu Ain class or ngaji.  ohmy.gif
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They did dear. Sorry to let you know that most ex Muslim got lots of knowledge about Islam. We're the minah rempit/disco people/drug people where still Islam. Get my point?
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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:47 AM)
They did dear. Sorry to let you know that most ex Muslim got lots of knowledge about Islam. We're the minah rempit/disco people/drug people where still Islam. Get my point?
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Sorry I meant *we're not*
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post Feb 9 2020, 03:49 AM

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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM)
Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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You are still a Muslim in Malaysia.

A PR in Singapore does not change that you're still a Malaysian citizen.

It is very difficult to get Malaysian citizenship once you've given it up.
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post Feb 9 2020, 09:43 AM

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Cannot. Only way is to migrate permanently elsewhere.
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post Feb 9 2020, 10:31 AM

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my muslim sis in-law, ada kata, in indonesia, muslim and christian can get married. it still depends on area. so as in singapore, which offer interfaith marriage.
untuk gua, it will be very troublesome for both of you, if still staying in malaysia, since ur i.c oledi stated ur religion. beranak kat luar negara tak ada problem, but nak dapat citizenship for ur baby tu yang buat pening kepala. sending kids to international school, tak ada issue.

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QUOTE(Gyazo @ Jan 19 2020, 11:16 AM)
Er i’m malay.
And i’m agnostic.
My gf (different race and religion) got no issue to convert.

As long as my father/happy that’s enough for me. You just got label islam in ur ic does not mean u need to practice it.

Its almost impossible to explain to religious people why u want to get out. Its like discussing with people that have a mental illness disease and delusion.

Or its just like u wakeup in the morning and then you realise that suddenly everyone around  you are zombies!

And its pointless to explain to them, instead just pretend ur zombie too and flow with them.

But you can just live urlife as usual, as non religious without they even need to know. You can sambut raya, every festival and be happy with ur family like usual.
No brainer, 0% stress.

All u need todo just feel pity to them, and hope they gonna get cure. 
P/S most politicians and royalty in Malaysian and arabs are agnostic or atheism too. The elite always first to know the truth than the sheep. Yet they still pretend they are religious for the sake of power.
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bro, you speak the truth
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post Feb 9 2020, 12:08 PM

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Your option:

1) Go through the court process, you will be fined for some penalties.
2) Get married outside of Malaysia, then stay in Malaysia and live quietly. (Many ppl do this)
3) Get out of Malaysia, get married, and stay there. But what is the citizenship of your children later?
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post Feb 9 2020, 12:45 PM

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QUOTE(touch me baby @ Feb 9 2020, 12:31 PM)
You can be Ex muslim in Malaysia? I always thought it is impossible to leave.
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Means, legally not yet. But personally yes.
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post Feb 10 2020, 02:09 PM

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There is a chance you may get tangkap basah if you sleep with him here in MY. SG civil marriage cert might not be recognised for muslim in MY.

Not sure if the above is true, as I don't have good authority on that. It's just my gut feel.
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post Feb 10 2020, 07:55 PM

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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM)
Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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Get a Singapore PR, marry him in Singapore and settle down in Singapore. This is the only workable solution.
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post Feb 12 2020, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM)
Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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no u can't.

the only choice for u is to migrate permanently elsewhere.
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post Feb 12 2020, 09:51 AM

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post Feb 12 2020, 09:58 AM

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post Feb 12 2020, 10:04 AM

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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM)
Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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Migrating should be the best idea right now because the most important stuff about this is You're A Muslim.

I won't comment too much about this but let's put religion as something our pama-tuknek follow since we're born. Life doesn't stops even if you turn atheist and eat oink-oinks. If marriage is important between you two, go ahead and grab it.

Don't bother about that because who knows, two to five years later many stuff change. Maybe that time China passport is the king. US resident step aside.
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post Feb 12 2020, 04:12 PM

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QUOTE(shaaaaa @ Feb 9 2020, 03:43 AM)
Hi guys, so I was a Muslim in Malaysia and I have a Christian boyfriend in Borneo. I'd like to know if I got permenant resident Singapore, can I change my religion there and then go back Malaysia and get married with him? Can I become a Malaysian back but with new identity (which isnt a Muslim)? Btw, I left not coz of him, we've been together a year where I left since 2016. Please help guys. 😭

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Not trolling.
Does your parents / family members aware of your choice?

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