Chinese wedding dowry, Give to who?
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 Jan 17 2020, 09:56 AM
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during wedding preplanning there must one session of dowry discussion between you, your parents, her side (she and her grandparents/relatives/parents), whoever made the decision during then will get the dowry.
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Jan 17 2020, 10:06 AM
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QUOTE(ComingBackSoon @ Jan 17 2020, 10:03 AM) The problem is on her side, nobody feels they have the right to make decision. if there is no one willing to be the decision maker, then save up, forget about the dowry.. spend more for your honeymoon1) grandparents (the ones who raised her) passed away 2) father never took care of her - she doesn't want him to be involved 3) only other elder person is her aunt, unwilling to take on the decision maker role Will let my fiancee speak to aunt 1 more time. If her aunt is still unwilling to take up the role, I will let my fiancee make all decisions.  |
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