It is a scam, nothing to do with gold digging.

She is hired by the bar to get desperate guys to buy overpriced drinks.

i guess this is really a scam tactic as told by other sifus here, nope not from kepong, when was your friend's experience, same using tantan?
and did your friend actually bought the drink? exact same experience? (cheapest option sold out, force to buy pricey one)

i super long time no post dy, still remember my story lol.
yeah but not that same person anymore, and yes im seeing a new one, which is kinda good girl, for few months already.
just that it's now a bit rocky, she seem lost interest after she finished her work at oversea for few months, for now im guessing she think i only want her body cos i picked up her subtle hints
i hope it will go well again after some period of no contact, gotta control the libido to regain trust? 

i feel sorry for your friend's loss, his ego clouded his rational mind?
wow terus ciao, your friend didnt react? like became angry or something? paid so much and you want to ciao just like that?
by the way, interested to know the ciao part, how she will pull it off to make it less obvious and harmless to not provoke the guy?

didnt really state any rules for no contact, she just said need she need to chill out, as per online research it's better to just give her what she want, which is space.
after i agreed giving her space, i went no contact until i decided to chat her back, maybe just few weeks time, not to drag too long to avoid backfire
part of the reason i suspect the need to chill out could be we keep texting every single day, im fine with that actually, but maybe she feel tired doing so? who knows. i can see that her reply is less affectionate as time passed

as for social circle, she's been very secretive about it since beginning, she dont wan let anyone know about us except a very few close friends to her
i kind of understand cos:
1. been fking after every date without fail, she's a bit resistant half of the time but managed to push thru it anyway, she clearly enjoys it at the end
2. still new like 1 month plus

or there may be reasons which i dont know bout

same to me too, at the start of cos everything is wonderful, daily and excessive, slowly become just daily but not excessive, some of the times she take up to 1 day to reply, but never exceed 2 days. she never share pics or video to me, which i like and my friends' gf did that, she seem dont like to share her pics, even the pics she took in fitting room while window shopping with me, she will only share me the pics we both took together (must be 2 of us in pic), im not sure what she's worry of

been 2 weeks exact for no contact already, the more i wait, the more i feel accustomed to it already and wanting to wait more and see how, so far she havent find me back yet, no update on social media too

the sad thing is i dont have much friends, and if i want her to hang out with my friends, i can do it, but i dont feel like intro her to my friends cos:
1. my friend knew too much about me, worry they might really add her and then share her my dark stories
2. worry they might fall for her and start take action

the open up part somehow contradicts with my thinking, if so then why she fk with me so soon lol, altho is me who tryhard to initiate that leads to the outcome
somehow now only she realized everytime i go out i want it, she seem pull back and act a bit cold from that point onwards

yes i love her, she's 1 of the rare kind that donr really focus on your money and a loving persona, pretty as well as able to be a bad girl when the time comes (that stuff), its exactly what i hoped for this entire life, i wouldnt want to let her go, at this point im not sure if a change in my behavior will change her attitude or not, planning to drop that thing for quite a while, just focus on building with her, get to really know her more, strengthen the bond 1st before anything else

what do u mean by "went downhill after"? this is important because i dont know whether u indeed just want sex, or truly like her, it has a difference.

if u meant u actually liked and try to pursue back, but despite that still went downhill, then im a bit worried now after seeing your reply
but if u actually just wanted it without commitment, i guess the downhill dont actually concern u, im sure you're totally fine letting her go

yes i will try my best to rekindle things, shouldnt do it so soon in the 1st place but i push thru it due to my past experience reminded me to move fast or you'll lose her
i cant believe that even i moved fast this time, the same thing can happen, i thought do it early on can actually sort of seal the deal
now i have to suffer the consequences and try to fix things, i hope im able to get her back, i still love her after all

ps: drop that attitude/thing = drop sex i meant