Hah.
Really. No offense but this really sounds like a joke from someone who doesn't date.

Firstly this so highly depends on the girl and not just the guy. So this so called article becomes a too generic high level idea. And it just becomes an idea.

Secondly nobody goes just for a movie for the date alone. It should always be paired with dinner or another event or activity. If you do just the movie alone then yes you're definitely not prepared. Our unless your conversational skills are very good, then good for you and her.

No. Do not assume those list of activities are suitable.
Those are a good list for extra activity and might not for a date.
Some of these are easily a friend zone, bro zone activity.

Like i said, it highly depends on your "date". If you don't understand him /her, you're not doing things right. And this normally takes time. Don't rush. And don't expect typical advice if list like this to work.

Just do it as comfortably as you could. Nobody likes a jittery date. Coz you'll end up adopting nonsense or spoiling the date.



This post has been edited by Ecnerwal: Feb 17 2019, 04:49 AM

I can only share simple effective tips.

1. Don't assume that the date is immediately your lifetime partner. It's good to be sincerely in love, but don't over display until it's creeping her out.

2. Be a good man, reliable, trustworthy. How? Firstly need to be a friend who can listen more. First few dates, try not to talk too much. Ask few simple questions first. Depends on her response, you can show more interest to listen to her more to explain.
E.g. If you know she's in IT course, you can ask something like "why did you pick the IT course?", and anything she answers, you can show more interest in wondering why? (subtly) like "oh?", open your eyes bigger with interest, and ask further "is that what all girls think of IT?" or "what made you think or have those thoughts?"
Consider your body language. It's quite important to learn this.

3. Don't lie nor over exagerrate things. May work for short term but once exposed or realized things never work out well. There will be "expectations" already once that happens.

Activities doesn't really matter. It's the chance and opportunity to converse and find out more with each other.

While you're right movie dating don't interact much, like I said noone dates just with the movie.
Even if you fetch her, you get to talk to her while driving. Makan, also can talk. Walking before or after also can talk. Or other activity before or after.
Movie part you can get to find out more of her preference of movies and for her to find out about yours.