bro aku terus terang la..
aku xleh move on lg. susah gila babi. everyday sure got a few moments of reminiscing. this is what drove me to the brink of 14th floor (my depression state, lucky im still sane) My first love of my life 8 years mann still study until plan nk kahwin.
even im married now for two years. sometimes aku mcm org bodoh, layan perasaan, kept thinking about things that should have not happen.
the damage so bad and i just cant love my wife the way i used to love my ex. im a broken man. duno if my advise good or not

people say forgive and forget. the things thats happened, i just cant forgive that betina sundal (not wanie404). i just cant.

maybe its just me. IDK. you need to forget.

but do things like ,
positive:-
remove/destroy anything that reminds u of her
delete her on social media (aku terus delete facebook, so no more FB since 2016) no insta etc, only /k my thing now.
forgive her and her family
get busy. go to gym.

i dont do all positive things.
most i did is destructive / negative. but it felt sure good.

iktibar ? moral of the story?

YOU ARE ALWAYS AN OPTION.

how long it takes for you to move on ? mind sharing some encourage words ?

i would say if guy wanna move on..

he need to find rebound partner or else till die oso susah move on..

yeah, happen to me oso.. 4 years.. aku kena tinggal dengan lelaki yang dia baru kenal 1 bulan..

haha..


anak dato lagi. relax je. Allah tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kau. 

Nak tanya sikit je lagi tuan
1. Sape tinggal sape?

aku.
2. Sebab utama putus rship?

dia jmpa yg lagi best.
3. Apa ayat yg dia cakap, yg buat tuan rasa marah/kecewa gila
quote from her FB message to her friend (and also my friend!)

"aku bagitau kau jgn bagitau dia, aku dah start sayang dia (that fucking guy) dah, tapi aku taknak cakap dkt jai (me) nanti dia mengamuk (FUCK, OBVIOUSLY!), aku dah plan nak kahwin bulan 6 (its year 2016) ni kau jangan bagitau dia pulak tau"
"boleh ke aku bahagia dgn jai nanti? , si polan tu dah la ustaz, hafaz 30 juzuk lagi, jai tu lak kene offshore, smoke lagi, ntah la" (this is the one that made me ticks to this day, sial pnya betina, bitch already start comparing me with someone else)

Ayam ask bcos facing this situation right now

Honestly, after few years i still cant move on. Moreover if its your first love.

Really need good luck bro.

this is the 'negative' method, which i did. haha. i broke many girls heart.
yeah. come to think of it. im not good enough for my wife. she is so loving and motherly type. while im just a douchebag. aku tak tahu ape tuhan plan sebenarnya.
this is correct. i now always tell my self what a bitch she is. You can have someone better bro.

this is the 'negative' method, which i did. haha. i broke many girls heart.
yeah. come to think of it. im not good enough for my wife. she is so loving and motherly type. while im just a douchebag. aku tak tahu ape tuhan plan sebenarnya.
this is correct. i now always tell my self what a bitch she is. You can have someone better bro.

now i'm a happy man married 1/12.

anak dato lagi. relax je. Allah tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kau. 

Damn. Its really hurt. Fuck that bitch.

But i guess, you still miss her now. First love is like that.

Haihhh sedih.. better x payah fikir dah pasal ex tu
Nikah tahun ni ke bro? ada baca bro punya story before this.. tahniah dpt pasangan yg lagi better. Macam drama tv pulak kan. Sebaik baik perancanganNya

yup. this year. 

What to do. You are corect.
Followed so many advises.rebound so many times.broke many hearts(and virgins lol)

And you still cant fucking forget.

Until want to find replacement just like her. Same face, same behavior. This is like a curse.

He maybe busy. Here i help..

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