Thank you TS for this wonderful post. It is really helpful even to people like me.

There are times when we are confused and dunno what to do, even it does sounded like common sense to others, we ourselves may not realize it.

And like other has pointed out, a partner that's willing to go through thick and thin with us is the utmost important.

Just that guys really needed to be aware on what the girl said.. for example,

did she keep complaining about her work or colleagues?

how she describe her colleagues/friends, she may be similar to them

most importantly do she often go mamak? Why this? I had met some bitches not willing to go mamak.. padahal stayed in pprt only. Act high class.

declined to hangout at low class mamak, she got tell you reason? Let me bet.. is amoi right? I got similar experience. That amoi told me all her friends all no hangout in mamak one. LOL