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post Jun 26 2018, 02:55 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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next round ah, dont waste time. after 3rd year and if no commitment to get married might as well move on. i wasted 5 years with a girl who decided her diver coach is a more viable option. i stupidly declined a job offer in Taiwan for her also. So, learn from your lesson yah
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post Jun 26 2018, 02:57 PM

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lol /k pretending to care to try some meat
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post Jun 26 2018, 02:58 PM

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post ur pic n the colleagues pic for absolute truth on the matter.
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:00 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 26 2018, 08:48 AM)
Yes, we only meet every weekend. He said im not by his side when he needed me. So he go for his colleague. What is more ridiculous is the girl also has bf. Good luck to him.
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Condolence to your relationship and bad experience.

Let's step back a little, if were to only meet every weekend... does it makes any difference as to compare you are single now?
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:00 PM

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QUOTE(reed90 @ Jun 26 2018, 02:57 PM)
lol /k pretending to care to try some meat
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:05 PM

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post Jun 26 2018, 03:05 PM

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Paktor period cannot be more than 6 years. First 2 years its the sweet sweet honeymoon years where you need to see each other everyday. Its the period of getting to know each other and liking each other. This period most couples actions are govern by their heart.

3rd & 4th year its the time you don't feel the need to be so close anymore. Less of those lovey dovey stuffs and more serious stuff like plans to get married, house, etc. This period most couples actions are govern by their brains. It's usually the 3rd or 4th year most couple break up because this is usually the period where it gets real serious.

If can survive 3rd & 4th year, 5th & 6th year is definitely marriage years. This period most couples are govern by both heart and brains. If couples did not get married by the 5th & 6th years, I can bet 70% will all break up. If they are caught cheating during this period, I can bet 99% all will break up.

By the 7th year, if not married, the 7th year itch will start. That's where most people will will start to stray. They will find other people more attractive and takes their partners for granted. This is the period where couples are govern by their dicks/vaginas!

This post has been edited by oucheev: Jun 26 2018, 03:06 PM
TSJohanna777
post Jun 26 2018, 03:06 PM

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QUOTE(insane.kill @ Jun 26 2018, 02:44 PM)
8 years too long la..should go get marry.
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we wanted to get marry next year. glad that i found out now, not divorce just break up
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:10 PM

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went through same thing but with a 4 years relationship..

good luck
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:10 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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Only time will heal. Right now the pain will be unbearable , just go through it , soon you will start or must get to know new people

You will be fine but there will be a scar from this and the choice is if it's going to be a badge of honour that you have been in the ups and down of life and still open to new possibilities or a reminder of pain that will make you build walls.

Good luck TS
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:12 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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shit man, how you found out?
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:12 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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what do u want to speak about?
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:15 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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you still miss him, don't you?

anyway, it will take some time to heal, maybe you can go for travelling to take some fresh air, maybe with your best friends

of course if you need someone to talk to, there is kopitiam for you nod.gif
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:15 PM

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Ts lucky/better this way. rather suffer after married with children
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:17 PM

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8 years too long
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:17 PM

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QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
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Sorry to hear that. Normally need get marry before the end of the 7th year relationship.
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:18 PM

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post Jun 26 2018, 03:19 PM

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5 years+ relationship better marry before 3rd party spice things up.
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post Jun 26 2018, 03:22 PM

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Hire heart breaker pretty biatch to screw him over from his colleague. And then dump kaw him again~
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