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 What is the most creative excuses ever received?, on escaping wedding dinner

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TSWonder Guy
post Mar 27 2018, 03:58 PM, updated 7y ago

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My wedding dinner event completed last week, very successful, me and my wife are very blissful and everything is just nice and perfect

But somehow, someway, there are certain group of people (which i could expect) that will suddenly pop up in your phone messages corner and tell you "i can't attend due to ....blah blah blah"

its fine because forcing people to come is a crime, organize event like this are meant for blessing each other but not cursing each other

So what is the most creative excuses i got during this span of time?
Its actually just 3 days before (not even a week or a month before) where these people come to me (message) and say "NO, count me out"

1st (3 days before, very good friend)
- hey, my son is sick, i don't think i can attend
**excuse me, you can even foresee that your son will sick for 3 days rclxms.gif

2nd (3 days before, colleague)
- yo bro, my car broke down la, i think i cannot make it to your dinner
**grab , uber, taxi or can even ask other colleague to fetch what? right?

3rd (2 days before, friend)
- hey, my who who who who passed away, i think cannot la, later you bad luck
**who is your who who who? LOL, she can't even know the relationship

4th (1 day before, good friend)
- yo bro, i am outstation tomorrow, sorry ya
**what else i can say? doh.gif

5th (3 hours before, good friend)
- hey, my leg is pain, i have to do treatment today, sorry ya
**wow, just pain for today? yesterday no pain? thumbup.gif

Finally, most epic one, on the time the wedding held (good friend)
- aiyo, i forgot to tell you, i fly to xxx country already, sorry ya

is it creative? it is so laughable for me

for their seats, sorry, they don't give any angpow, they just assume they are virtually there and support me, so its empty and i have to imagine myself that they are there
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:01 PM

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sorry bro cant afford for your wedding angpow
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:06 PM

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your face problem.

they come means they give you face.

they dont come and find excuses means they dont give you face.

Therefore i can conclude is your faceproblem, for them who dont come.
TSWonder Guy
post Mar 27 2018, 04:09 PM

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QUOTE(Red_rustyjelly @ Mar 27 2018, 04:06 PM)
your face problem.

they come means they give you face.

they dont come and find excuses means they dont give you face.

Therefore i can conclude is your faceproblem, for them who dont come.
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:09 PM

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maybe those reasons are legit one le #bersangkabaik
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:11 PM

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QUOTE(teikboon @ Mar 27 2018, 04:09 PM)
maybe those reasons are legit one le #bersangkabaik
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legit or not legit, its fine but does it make sense to you?
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:12 PM

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just remember these people.. do the same unto them next time...
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(soulhunter87 @ Mar 27 2018, 04:01 PM)
sorry bro cant afford for your wedding angpow
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some also pack 100 for 5 people per family, i accept it also, angpow is just bless tool, not an entrance fees
you shows up and enjoy the moment with me is all i care
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:28 PM

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QUOTE(Wonder Guy @ Mar 27 2018, 04:11 PM)
legit or not legit, its fine but does it make sense to you?
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that's why i put a hashtag of bersangkabaik there... move on and don't think much on this already and maybe you can directly say no to their invitation in the future.

last time I also hope some people like my ex boss and coligs can come to celebrate my big day but in the end they no choi me at all... from that moment you can see who are your real best / close friends and who are not.
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post Mar 27 2018, 04:37 PM

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Well you cannot expect people do come to your wedding dinner if they can't even leave because of the issues that they have.

My gf father has no choice but to skip a close colleague wedding last weekend because of his wife (my gf mother) gotten very very ill and keep throwing up everything she eats.

Just let them be since you mentioned that your wedding is very successful. So why bother? hmm.gif


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post Mar 27 2018, 07:11 PM

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QUOTE(DS_Legacy @ Mar 27 2018, 04:37 PM)
Well you cannot expect people do come to your wedding dinner if they can't even leave because of the issues that they have.

My gf father has no choice but to skip a close colleague wedding last weekend because of his wife (my gf mother) gotten very very ill and keep throwing up everything she eats.

Just let them be since you mentioned that your wedding is very successful. So why bother? hmm.gif
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did my post sounded like blaming them? hell no
its the excuses that makes them ugly, people who face REAL problem will have that kind of urgency where they will do things in proper manner but not creating stories
those people that i mentioned in my post are damn active in social media
none of it shown up which is in sync with what they have told...lame
I am still so kind heart-ed and ask people around about their situation, those people who close to them can't even know what is happening to them
so? still...don't want to come just inform me earlier, i don't beg for that stupid angpow OR present as i have earn decent amount of money for living but at least don't waste my seats and food, i would rather donate that empty seated table money to charity

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post Mar 27 2018, 07:22 PM

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QUOTE(Wonder Guy @ Mar 27 2018, 07:11 PM)
did my post sounded like blaming them? hell no
its the excuses that makes them ugly, people who face REAL problem will have that kind of urgency where they will do things in proper manner but not creating stories
those people that i mentioned in my post are damn active in social media
none of it shown up which is in sync with what they have told...lame
I am still so kind heart-ed and ask people around about their situation, those people who close to them can't even know what is happening to them
so? still...don't want to come just inform me earlier, i don't beg for that stupid angpow OR present as i have earn decent amount of money for living but at least don't waste my seats and food, i would rather donate that empty seated table money to charity
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You are earning decent amount of money for living. Why bother? hmm.gif

Since you are so kind hearted, why don't you move on and just dabao those food and give them to the homeless? icon_idea.gif


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post Mar 27 2018, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(Wonder Guy @ Mar 27 2018, 04:13 PM)
some also pack 100 for 5 people per family, i accept it also, angpow is just bless tool, not an entrance fees
you shows up and enjoy the moment with me is all i care
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maybe your wedding took place at somewhere exclusive. thats why people think better not to go rather than give small ang pow
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post Mar 27 2018, 08:48 PM

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Send the debt collector to collect on the missing red packets 🤣😂
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post Mar 27 2018, 09:55 PM

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QUOTE(DS_Legacy @ Mar 27 2018, 07:22 PM)
You are earning decent amount of money for living. Why bother?  hmm.gif

Since you are so kind hearted, why don't you move on and just dabao those food and give them to the homeless?  icon_idea.gif
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damn, you are in the point, i did dabao up those food, but not to the homeless but to my neighbours

regarding the bother part, did i? i just share out their creative idea , is this considered as bother? rclxub.gif
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post Mar 27 2018, 09:59 PM

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QUOTE(soulhunter87 @ Mar 27 2018, 07:28 PM)
maybe your wedding took place at somewhere exclusive. thats why people think better not to go rather than give small ang pow
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its fine, i don't force them to come neither if they think angpow is an obstacle for them but at least let me know earlier la, either be busy or blah blah blah but early a bit can or not? not this kind of few days or few hours earlier.... doh.gif
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post Mar 27 2018, 10:01 PM

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QUOTE(Xaser_3 @ Mar 27 2018, 08:48 PM)
Send the debt collector to collect on the missing red packets 🤣😂
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wah, those premium paid to the collector will be even greater than their lousy red packets

later those small gas people post it out got viral and suddenly become public enemy pulak....haha

i am just inspired and impress by their idea...nothing to do with money or hate
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post Mar 27 2018, 10:26 PM

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QUOTE(Wonder Guy @ Mar 27 2018, 09:55 PM)
damn, you are in the point, i did dabao up those food, but not to the homeless but to my neighbours

regarding the bother part, did i? i just share out their creative idea , is this considered as bother?  rclxub.gif
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There are tons of people giving such reasoning these days, it is a norm already laugh.gif



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post Mar 28 2018, 09:09 AM

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QUOTE(Wonder Guy @ Mar 27 2018, 10:01 PM)
wah, those premium paid to the collector will be even greater than their lousy red packets

later those small gas people post it out got viral and suddenly become public enemy pulak....haha

i am just inspired and impress by their idea...nothing to do with money or hate
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Just turn it into a prank like a soap drama. Someone unfamiliar acting as debt collector, capturing the expression on their faces would be priceless.
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post Mar 28 2018, 10:34 AM

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QUOTE(DS_Legacy @ Mar 27 2018, 10:26 PM)
There are tons of people giving such reasoning these days, it is a norm already laugh.gif
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you must be very experience on this thumbup.gif
for me, its still looks like an innovative stories

This post has been edited by Wonder Guy: Mar 28 2018, 10:34 AM

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