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 Feb 22 2018, 01:17 PM, updated 8y ago
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Feb 22 2018, 01:21 PM
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is normal...
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Feb 22 2018, 01:21 PM
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"It feels as if there is like a barrier and when my partner is trying to get it in, its breaking something inside.."
Not sure if you're joking or not. But I'm sure, being a lady, you've heard of something called a "hymen" that tears upon penetration. My terminology may not be 100% accurate but the gist is there. |
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Feb 22 2018, 01:22 PM
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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 22 2018, 01:17 PM) I had my first sexual intercourse last night and the penetration is so painful, is that normal? there are 2 holes down there. the one where no 2s come out is the wrong hole!I have googled it but got no answers, many articles just talk about debunking myth etc. (Idk, maybe my keyword is wrong) It feels as if there is like a barrier and when my partner is trying to get it in, its breaking something inside..after that, theres bleeding and its also painful to walk.. this morning i can walk but also feels weird It is embarrassing that I am 24 n never had sex before. Im afraid, do I have vaginismus? So what should i do to just stop feeling pain next time? Its actually scares me n got me thinking “how can ppl enjoy having sex? Its very painful” Please help, im in panic now  This post has been edited by berzerk: Feb 22 2018, 01:23 PM |
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Feb 22 2018, 01:27 PM
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Use a lubricant next time, it'll help a bit.
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Feb 22 2018, 01:29 PM
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Not sure u r kidding or not, giving u benefit of the doubt. Standby KY Jelly or any lubricant then. And foreplay la, get the juice flowing first.
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Feb 22 2018, 01:47 PM
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Lol at least the penetration happened. My partner is afraid of pain (yea any type of pain) . The first night took hours and only managed to get about quarter in.
Though she's all good now  This post has been edited by axtray: Feb 22 2018, 01:47 PM |
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Feb 22 2018, 03:05 PM
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Yeah, don't worry. It's normal. This sort of thing takes a lot of practice to get used to so I hope your first time doesn't discourage you.
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Feb 22 2018, 03:24 PM
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sorry all, but Im not trolling or anything, im just really scared.
it also makes my partner scared cause he hates seeing me in pain..after 2 trials, he said i cant do this anymore.. I think there wont be next time (yes, it makes me very sad n i think im so useless) not a good first exp for me, but its a pretty relief that its normal..(i hope it really is) |
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Feb 22 2018, 04:30 PM
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very normal la. even after so many times my gf also find it painful and there are a few times she had to call it quit...
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Feb 23 2018, 10:21 AM
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The more u think about it, the more painful it will be in the next intercourse.
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Feb 23 2018, 11:48 AM
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QUOTE(Lionel90 @ Feb 22 2018, 05:30 PM) very normal la. even after so many times my gf also find it painful and there are a few times she had to call it quit... time to change broh  |
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Feb 23 2018, 11:52 AM
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first few times might be painful, longer foreplay, use lub, condom will help
 if he has full penetration, you will enjoy itThis post has been edited by anakkk: Feb 23 2018, 11:52 AM |
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Feb 23 2018, 12:06 PM
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QUOTE(TrustULoveU @ Feb 23 2018, 11:48 AM) time to change broh there's more to a relationship than just sex la  but then it is a problem la  |
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Feb 23 2018, 12:10 PM
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QUOTE(Lionel90 @ Feb 23 2018, 01:06 PM) there's more to a relationship than just sex la its gonna be a long problem and fight for ur little bro ~ but then it is a problem la |
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Feb 23 2018, 12:12 PM
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QUOTE(TrustULoveU @ Feb 23 2018, 12:10 PM) its gonna be a long problem and fight for ur little bro ~ i dont always get to enter there doesnt mean no action at all  |
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Feb 23 2018, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 22 2018, 01:17 PM) I had my first sexual intercourse last night and the penetration is so painful, is that normal? Welcome to adult world... first few times probably wont enjoy as much. Later when you get to know more about your own body arousal etc, then you will start to show your true color.I have googled it but got no answers, many articles just talk about debunking myth etc. (Idk, maybe my keyword is wrong) It feels as if there is like a barrier and when my partner is trying to get it in, its breaking something inside..after that, theres bleeding and its also painful to walk.. this morning i can walk but also feels weird It is embarrassing that I am 24 n never had sex before. Im afraid, do I have vaginismus? So what should i do to just stop feeling pain next time? Its actually scares me n got me thinking “how can ppl enjoy having sex? Its very painful” Please help, im in panic now |
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Feb 23 2018, 03:01 PM
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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 22 2018, 03:24 PM) sorry all, but Im not trolling or anything, im just really scared. for the first few times it will hurt, and it will get better over time. Are you aroused and "wet" down there? if not you might want to use some lubricant to make it easierit also makes my partner scared cause he hates seeing me in pain..after 2 trials, he said i cant do this anymore.. I think there wont be next time (yes, it makes me very sad n i think im so useless) not a good first exp for me, but its a pretty relief that its normal..(i hope it really is) |
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Feb 23 2018, 03:05 PM
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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 22 2018, 01:17 PM) I had my first sexual intercourse last night and the penetration is so painful, is that normal? you might be too panic or the foreplay isn't good enough as you need to have lubricant along the path to make it smoothI have googled it but got no answers, many articles just talk about debunking myth etc. (Idk, maybe my keyword is wrong) It feels as if there is like a barrier and when my partner is trying to get it in, its breaking something inside..after that, theres bleeding and its also painful to walk.. this morning i can walk but also feels weird It is embarrassing that I am 24 n never had sex before. Im afraid, do I have vaginismus? So what should i do to just stop feeling pain next time? Its actually scares me n got me thinking “how can ppl enjoy having sex? Its very painful” Please help, im in panic now if it isn't smooth then both of you will suffer |
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Feb 23 2018, 04:05 PM
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is normal. nothing to worry about.
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