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skylee18
post Feb 23 2018, 03:05 PM

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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 22 2018, 01:17 PM)
I had my first sexual intercourse last night and the penetration is so painful, is that normal?

I have googled it but got no answers, many articles just talk about debunking myth etc. (Idk, maybe my keyword is wrong)

It feels as if there is like a barrier and when my partner is trying to get it in, its breaking something inside..after that, theres bleeding and its also painful to walk.. this morning i can walk but also feels weird

It is embarrassing that I am 24 n never had sex before. Im afraid, do I have vaginismus?

So what should i do to just stop feeling pain next time?
Its actually scares me n got me thinking “how can ppl enjoy having sex? Its very painful”

Please help, im in panic now
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you might be too panic or the foreplay isn't good enough as you need to have lubricant along the path to make it smooth
if it isn't smooth then both of you will suffer
skylee18
post Feb 24 2018, 04:57 PM

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QUOTE(iloilo @ Feb 24 2018, 12:43 PM)
we had lubricant, but to be honest, i was scared n nervous n maybe very tense too..so lubricant wont help?
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of course, when you scare and nervous, it will be more tight and more difficult to enter
probably next round you should listen to some soft music, chit chatting with your partner before get into that
the more you relax, the process will be more easier and you will be more enjoy rather than pain

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