islam is easy, n u dont hv to practice. why, u think all those malays practice eh?
good religion and calm, until you read ISIS manifesto
i got so many friends who were christians and married moslem girls (7 near me actually)
none of them are worried about anything lor

no need to circumcise whattt.. that is only malay tradition.. islam encouraged u to, but not obligation
but no mopre pork for you lorrr

i ate pork for a year 9by mistake, i didnt realize the school i was in serve pork, i was 17 then)..mehhh not too different from turkey, just cheaper

This post has been edited by rinsedpie: Dec 18 2017, 08:40 PM

there is no need to change name, to change character, to circumcise, to wear malay clothes, to speak malay, to follow malay culture, to mingle with malays. why, u think malay means islam and islam means malay ah?

u will get new genetic pools.. and yer kids will be intelligent, just by rules of selection alone they will be

See your post, i tot youre my fiance...
he went through wht you been through before getting bck with me... (long story... im his ex last 10 yrs) total of years known him 14... dated for 4 years, break up for 10 years... now gotten back with him...

during the break up period, he doesnt trust any chinese girls after i left.. so hes been dating muslim girls... the 1st muslim girl lasted for 4 years but end up break cuz he went play around looking for girls (no sexual involved), thn the 2nd muslim gf lasted a year... cuz shes too pushy wanna get married.. but he doesnt want cuz his parents disapproved...

he brought back a few girls to his parents, but parents all disapproved... so he gave up being in the relationship til i contacted him back..

so my advised is, you have to choose: your family or your gf...
my fiance chose his family...

you gotta make your choices...

hope this helps..

marry first...tell your parents...2nd wife will be Chinese because you entitled the privilege.....3rd one get Indian and you can well be on Malaysia book of records for show casing 1 Malaysia spirit...tabik

Religion is most likely fiction created by those in power to control the masses

Experience at least once and you wont regret. I had couple awek gf and there more fun and less demanding compare to cina.

Me tink if put religion aside , many cina bro will prefer awek for wife, most r really sincrely sayang2 abang treat husband like king, and less materialistic vs amoi. From my own experience oso..even indonesians better than amoi

Meenachi is best.

I just broke up with my malay girlfriend, and we've been together for almost 8 years. Although my family and her family are fine with me convert, but i just can't accept islam. I've try and struggle, but i just can't. I'm not really a religion guy, i kinda don't care abut them as i just want to live my life simple.

Why there must be religion to divide our differences? Its like you were being born with it, no choice, and forced to swallow the religion?

Life is so unfair.

you're 33 and you have to follow your moms wishes? Most people in the rest of the world by 18 already kicked out of the house and will marry whomever they want. The world does not belong to our parents or their parents. It belongs to the future.
The solution? Show your mom that this girl doesnt have to be Chinese to steal your heart or for you to be a responsible man who can take care of his family. Show that everything you do, is colour blind and all you seek for everyone is happiness.

The media most people expose themselves to are out there to sensationalize everything. They have no interest in real news. Are only there to raise your eyebrows. The truth is boring and doesnt sell. Everyone out there talks about how you will need to "cut" it to be muslim. When the truth is no member of the clergy is going to ask you to take off your pants and prove you've been cut.

praying? the idea of praying is to seek inner calm by talking to god. Most religions out there have similar beliefs. Well, in your own house no one is going to storm in and force you to pray.

Halal? Authorities dont really care what you eat in your own house or if you go to other countries and eat pork. But if you eat pork or drink alcohol in Malaysia at least, they will feel challenged that their authority is undermined.
When everyone starts ignoring the law, "chaos" will ensure. (by chaos I mean peoples will start ignoring the authorities). When no one listens to the authority, they will start to lose their power. And no power, means, they will lose their job.
I've been living in Singapore and MUIS doesnt care what you eat. Their job is to ensure you have many options in terms of halal food and to guide Muslims.

Aurat? kind of a grey area. But imagine you seeing old uncles and aunties walking around in hot pants and low cuts all the time. Not that pleasant. So there needs to be a common understand as to what is decent clothing. Unfortunately malays are taking it too extreme these days. No one is forcing them to wear hijabs at all.

TLDR version:
When you're married, whether you're religious or not, there is actually only one person in the family you need to please.
That is your wife.
If both of you can come up with a harmonious solution to everything in your marriage, then you're set for life.

In this 21st century, most people right now are mixed-blood. So, I believe the society should learn how to accept them as part of culture learning in a friendly manner. I used to have friends who don't understand why a malay must marry a chinese? Why not they marry with the same race? Funny, how until now the people cannot accept different race. Can you see the differences when a chinese marries an Ang Moh? Like Seriously right? Is it the level of status or because Ang Mo is white and are intelligent? FYI, not everyone are born genius and so whatever. Skin color doesn't matter anyway, is about how your life partner treat you is anout their role as a gf/bf in a relationship.

Some people are destine to fall in love. Love happens. Is a beautiful thing, but because of this, it takes time for your parents to understand. It is nothing wrong to have a different race as life partner. You should be brave to tell your parents when you are ready. You must roll your boat across the storm with your own might. BE BRAVE. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

Yup! I agree with what you said. Islam is a universal religion. It doesn't make us lose our name, culture and others. Only the society brings up the peer pressures and exaggerated the law of religion teachings. In fact, I never heard of haram things that much, which some are not even mention in the Holy Quran. It was too much for that.

Straight to the point, tell your family about her and religion settle now dont drag as muslim girl cant drag like most chinese do.

Their religion is very extreme and non tolerance, better not to go into, otherwise there is no turning back.

Tell u what, just ask your heart, do you really love this girl that you willing to do anything for her? Because she doesn't have the choice you have, ergo she cant convert to other religions.

You made the call, your decision, your choice.

If you truly love her, then revert and marry her, if not let her go.