yea i know i should chill abit.. but u know.. i really feel that she often neglects me and takes advantage of me.. so yeah.. i was kinda pissed n just spilled everything out.. i guess she will have a fun time reading it tmr..

the thing is, she is the one who is free. she just finished her exams. i am the one having exams next week. so yeah, if i can still make time for her, i dont see why she cant afford to make any for me. seems selfish.

oh well.. thanks for reading my stuff... just had to release some tension.. back to studying

i am not constantly seeking contact with her. i just give her a call like once a day to see how things are going. i dont think that can be considered not giving space. come on la, if u go somewhere for a few days with no hp signal u could atleast let ur bf/gf know about it right.

then it feels like i am the one doing everything in this relationship. the last she called me was like a month ago i think. all the calls also i have to make. sms also i have to start. if i dont sms, i will never get one from her. sometimes she takes a few hours just to reply also. then she will give some excuse; was busy, didnt see your sms.

then if i dont call for a day or 2 coz very busy, the next time i call she will say "wah, very busy ah. no time to call me also."

haiz.. as if she was any better

i know that taking is the best way to discuss things. actually i tried to call her when she came online last night. called her room no answer. called her hp straight voice mail. so i just had 2 tell her online.

i think i will only talk to her again in about 2 weeks. because i am gona be having my exams now. so i dont want this thing to interfere with my exams.

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Added on June 10, 2007, 6:45 pmbtw... what will you guys go if your partner treat you like this??

This post has been edited by lelong1234: Jun 10 2007, 06:45 PM

Yea.. Thats what i am planning to do. I plan not to call her till after my exams. Which will only be finished in 2 weeks. I will probably send her an sms tmr or the day after telling her that i just want 2 take it easy now and concentrate on my exams. Hopefully she will understand.

Anyways, i sent her an sms around noon just to see how she was doing. Until now got no reply. Kinda typical of her i guess..

Finally got a reply from my gf. She sent me a a short email. hehe.. Dont know why she chose 2 email me instead of sms.
Anyways, it made my day. For a while i thought she wouldnt contact me.. Guess i was wrong.

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Added on June 12, 2007, 4:15 pmoh yeah... why dont you guys try using voipbusterpro? i used to use this. u can make up to 700min of talking to selected countries for free. it cost 10 euro. i think u get free 5 euro credit. but make sure u read all the terms properly. for each call that you make there will be a small connection fee. but its still very cheap. give it a try. Btw, its a internet voip product. so that means u have to call him/her using your computer.

This post has been edited by lelong1234: Jun 12 2007, 04:15 PM

i think some of you may know that i have been having some problems with my relationship. anyways.. i just finished my exams so i took some time to write my gf an email suggesting that we break as obviously there is no light at the other end. i just sent it to her a couple of minutes ago.

i mean like i have been having exams for the past 2 weeks and i still took the liberty to try to contact her even after our argument. i even emailed her a couple of times asking why cant reach her. if i call her room it goes unanswered. if i call her hp it goes straight to the operator. what more do i have to do to reach her? she also not bothered at all about me didnt even send me a single sms/email or try to contact me.

haiz.. sometimes i think being too good hurts....

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Added on June 21, 2007, 10:33 pmanyways.. i know she has already read what i said, coz i send it to her as an ecard. just so that i would get a notification once she has got it. or else she will probably say what she was somewhere where got no internet for the last 2 weeks, therefore cant check her email or what ever crap.

This post has been edited by lelong1234: Jun 21 2007, 10:33 PM

thanks for the advice. i know i have already done what i could. she already received my email. at the end i told her that i wasn't asking for much, just a phone call from her. but i guess even that was too much. oh well, i will try to follow your advice and go out more. wont try to contact her anymore. i did all i could. the rest is up to her i guess...

u going through the same stuff as me?

mind to share abit?

haha.. yea.. i bet its the thread with the least amount of spam

haiz.. seems like this is a bad week for alot of us. sigh.. until now no reply from 'my gf'

just came back from a movie.. enjoyed it. but every time i see another couple, i think of her and feel kinda down. oh well.. life goes on..

Joshua this is your gf speaking??

Btw, thanks for all the support people. I think might try to give her a call again later tonight. Or should i not?

haiz.. as most of you all know i kinda already broken up with my gf... actually i just told her we should break through an email(last week). coz i havent been able to contact her for over 2 weeks.

anyways, now her phone got signal again. been calling her today n yesterday but she doesnt want to answer. i just sent her an sms saying that all i want is to talk to her once more. after that if she doesnt want me to call i wont. 5 min later i called, still no answer. haiz... i really feel sad that someone i had loved truthfully now treat me like this. i mean all i am asking for is ONE call. i dont think thats too much right? almost brought me to tears that she doesnt want to answer. but i think maybe the tears are not worth it for her.

Thanks for all the advice...

I think today i will give my last try, if she doesn't answer i will call up her best guy friend that i know quite well also. I will explain the situation to him and ask him to give her a call and talk to her and ask her why she ignores me. After that if she still doesnt want to talk then well, what else can i say... that will be then end...

I mean all i want to do is to just clear things up. I want to know some of her thoughts and how she feels about the whole thing. Its not like if i am calling to scold her or something.

Actually before we couple we were kinda like best friends, then now seems like she treats me as an enemy...

This post has been edited by lelong1234: Jun 26 2007, 09:29 AM

Afternoon everyone. Havent posted here in a while i think

Just came back from lunch.. mee hun kee + wan tan mee... (spelling most probably wrong)

Being a pig i guess

yup... like me.. still havent talked 2 my "gf" in about a month. Can you believe that!! She still wont answer my calls. I gues that means that it ended.

Hi people... i am in abit of a dilemma now. As some of you may already know, my "gf" hasnt answered any of my calls/sms/emails in about a month already.

All of a sudden today i get a call from her that i didnt answer. Then she sends me an sms. (i didnt know i had a call/sms until an hour later as my phone was away from me). Then in the sms she says
"dear why i didnt answer her call?" Say i must me very busy with someone else. Then at the end say "dont say i didnt call you."

I mean WTF man! She is the one who has all of a sudden ignored me for a month!! Then just because i didnt answer one of her call on accident i get this kind of remarks from her. I havent replied to her SMS yet as i think she is already asleep by now and i also dont really know what to say.

Haiz any ideas? Actually i more or less already gave up on her. After she treat me like this i really dono what to do. Makes my head start to spin.....

Well she just called me again and i answered. We just pretended like nothing happened. Then i asked her why she didnt answer my calls or reply my sms and emails. Then she says "huh? you got sms/call/email me?? i didnt receive any also." Then i said " you can stop lying, because i know what your saying is all lies." Then the topic some how drifted to something else.

After awhile she said she has to sleep coz got class early tmr. Then i just said ok.

Aiyo, really headache now la.

Can someone please advise me? Really dono if i should accept her back or not. After she treat me like this a part of me says dont waste time. Then another part says to give it a try.

Aiyo, confused....

Well, i asked her why she didnt answer my calls, then she says is "huh you got call me meh? i didnt recieve any calls also." Same goes from my my sms and emails.

Come on la, i am not that stupid. Really pisses me off that she just cant tell me the truth. I think the next time i talk to her i am gona ask her the same question again. If she gives me the same answer or another stupid answer, then i think its not worth it to continue. No point being in a relationship filled with lies and secrets. I mean, i am just looking for the truth. If she wants to lie, then its not helping.

She just totally disappeared from my life for a month, then yesterday call and talk to me like as if nothing has ever happened. I mean we had a good conversation with laughter and all, but still i really dono.