Hi BearBearWong

Happy New Year to you and I just realized you posted this question recently and since you responsed when I tagged you, I will have to return the favor by giving my input.

I would say, you cannot generalize what girls in a certain age group would think about or how they will act, although, girls or even guys will tend to act a certain way when they hit a certain age such as:

18 to 24 – I am very young and beautiful so I can act like a Princess and any guy who does not like it can get lost

25 to 30 – I am still young and attractive and I can make demands because I know I am worth it can any guy who does not like it can get lost

31 to 35 – I am smart, mature and still attractive. I have my own demands and expectations and any guy who does not like it can get lost.

36 to 40 – I am still matured beautiful woman who knows what she wants and any guy who does not like it can get lost.

Of course, the above are just typical stereotypes and not all women think like that, although a vast majority, according to guys, think that they do.

I have read many of your postings and I deduced that you’re a Lawyer, probable in your early 30s and you already have a landed property. So, based on Malaysian standards, you can be said to be quite well.
But, things can always be BETTER and as a responsible person, we have the obligation and responsibility to always improve ourselves.

This improvement, is not only in Money but also in knowledge, responsibility, etc. As long as we believe in a better future, we must take the steps to do it. This means

a) Improving knowledge to do better job
b) Improving job position to take on higher responsibility
c) Spend less than you earn to save for future
d) Accumulating assets for the future
e) Investing for the future

All women, especially smart and responsible women, would want their partners to think like that I suppose and also, a responsible man would also want his partner to think like that.

Be realistic about what you and your GF wants. Its always good to want to increase your income but don’t put unnecessary pressure cos your GF earns more than you.

Share the burden, this is what Family is about

Happy new year…