all other replies are saying to take risk on marriage or wadever is coming AFTER you signed the legal stuffs and pay for all the things u have to for the marriage.

planning for the future is a must these days with all the bullshit going on for the economy. no one know what could happen. would you rather to have a broken family with all the issues that only leads to arguement/anger and get a divorce ?

these days it takes both person to sustain a healthy(mentally) family for the generation to come. my pov is if shes the one (same planning and the will to carry on as a couple/family), both of you will get tru this TOGETHER and not one who wants to take high risk of uncertain future that you might face later on.

if your gf and her family does not agree with you, well i think you already have some thoughts about it.