Don't get married if you're not mentally and emotionally ready. Don't do it "for her". You're going to resent her and her family if that is your motivation.

If you have to break up and let her find someone who is ready, sit down and explain the situation to her. It's going to hurt both ppl but better than being given ultimatums and forced into a more permanent life situation you don't want to be in.

Also, is there a need to be rude? I'm talking to everyone posting in this thread.