and moreover i just found out throughout her ten years after coming out from high school she has ZERO savings and one of those I wanna work so I can travel type of girls. I had to chip in money to deal with her repair work and save her ass countless of times for not saving and spending every month.

pot calling kettle black kah. you expect me to buckle up when your finances are shit poor. sorry not looking for a broke ass wife as a liability until she fixes her shit.