Let me just say this, have you thought from your gf and her parents perspective? Why are they asking for a marriage? Have you tried to understand their intentions before blowing up?

Other people's parents? Even my own parents complain eh boy why you got no plan for the future? But I do just like you, just that I don't openly tell them. Humans are prone to laying judgement based on what they see, have you brought her parents to go see the house you bought? Do they know the existence of your plans? Manatau they think you're just like their daughter nvr save. Remember seeing is believing. Aunties and uncles will be aunties and uncle, it's the way they were brought up, our generation would be much better parents, that is if we don't shove ipads and tech down our kids throats.

Put aside your ego for a bit and try to understand where they are coming from. Yeah they are wrong for jumping the gun, but all humans do it and we have something called patience and tolerance to use. We can be the better person. If you have any doubts about your relationship get it sorted ASAP.

This post has been edited by siles1991: Dec 28 2016, 11:32 AM