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 Girlfriend's parents rushing and pushing, for a wedding and engagement

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AMenzZ
post Dec 28 2016, 02:23 AM

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QUOTE(loui @ Dec 27 2016, 11:37 PM)
that's the plan

why not just communicate to her and the parents

man and woman doesn't think alike

they need assurance, we are more pragmatic

show them your plan

even if you want to come up with a surprise, still, tell her your plan vaguely

let her know both of you are not heading to no where

don't expect people to know you have a plan when you aren't showing any sign of it

anyway, good luck bro
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Agreed with above suggestion..

If you are ready to spend half a century++ with your gf, then she is the one..

Im not sure your gf is a big spender or earning less than enough or trying to afford luxury with limited resources, ZERO saving is something serious..

Nowadays, quite a number of ppl will ROM first then in coming 1-3years then only they have their wedding ceremony. Some just have a simple wedding ceremony and straight go to wedding vacation, skipping all the yam sing or boring session.

Some newly weds even say, just choose the inexpensive bridal photoshoot package coz the albums will just end up in the wardrobe or store room for most of the time..

It is your call !

Call ur gf n her parent up, discuss it with them, let them know ur plan. Unless you have gave up on her and her family..

R she the one for you?

 

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