Why not?? Rather regret whole life than lose face?

Then do like what some suggest lor. Put all the cards out and both of you come to a compromise. If now also cannot compromise, then further down the line sure alot of trouble one. This come from old uncle like me. Seen so many times liao with friends.

aiyoh, don't liddat lah. different financial background mah.

he shud just be prepared ang pau very liddle and have to subsidise a lot lor. Bottom line, don't factor in ang pau but still collect.