U watch them. But still kena kidnap?

That means u not watching them. Its illogical

Yes. I don't have kid yet

But i took care 4 of my nephew almost every year for 2 to 3 months

Went out to park. To mall. Ok jer

Youngest is 2. Oldest is 7

Nobody got kidnap yet

Why?

Cuz i took care of them

I watch them

Yes. I agree

Nobody in my family

Not even those from in laws or distant cousin use crib

Probably we all just better human at parenting

Not to sound arrogant. But that just how u guys making me feel like

I cant conclude this in any other way

Bodoh. You cross the road, you look left and right. Does it guarantee you won't become a road kill by deranged driver??

Bodoh tak terhingga-hingga.

Besides, you don't have kid. STFU lah. You are not qualified to talk.

This post has been edited by SushiBurgerX: May 16 2016, 09:44 AM

Wait

U cross road

U look left and right. There's no car

How can u kena hit by deranged driver?

He suddenly warp jump into the road and kill u like some sci fi movie?

Wow

No. Im qualified to talk. I take care of kids and bring them places

Biological or not. Aint matter.

Its not the determining factor

I didnt read through all the posts here but I'm sure u might have receive heavy backlask and some might have replied this too : the kids leash is connected to the chidren's backpack and NOT their necks . So your -ve perception on this is disturbing .

Of course

If its the neck it would be harmful and possibly fatal

It being a backpack is not for moral superiority

Merely a better biological choice for human

You don't have a kid, means you are not qualified.

Bodoh lagi. The reason is simple. Just because you LOOK, doesn't mean you can SEE everything. My goodness, i pray for the parents who let you take their kids out.

So many bodoh in /K, no kids, wanna claim as self declared expert attention whore.

Ptui!

the perfect father with perfect son, belittle average father and hyperion son

Whoa..this guy again....TS is known sohai here. Ignore him people.

Wah... this thread still alive. Im surprised.

Looking at the responses, theres alot of pro leashes in here. Which is actually a surprise to me. Im not sure if all these responses comes from parents or parents wannabes, but with lots of pro leashes, how come I can barely see any parents use leash on their children in Malaysia?

Im not pro leash or anti leash. I believe every parent have every right on how to handle their children. Im more of an old school type of parent where I prefer to educate n dicipline my children. Teach them properly on how to behave properly in public. Never ever let go of my hand or wife hand without permission. Never talk to strangers. And so on. I prefer to let them able to think for themselves on what can or cannot do. And I as a parent will guide them to choose what is right.

But thats just me. There is no wrong or right in using leashes. It all comes down to the parent. If u feel safer using a leash, by all means use it. I on the other hand prefer to use the hard way of parenting.

Best answer of the thread. I am not pro or anti either.

Only beh tahan wanna be self declared child expert who thinks his solution is the only RIGHT solution.

Ptui!

Given a CHOICE , NO PARENTS wants to RESTRAIN THEIR KIDS.

Think about it.

Theres alot of choices parents have to make when raising a child. Just choose which u feel comfortable with n what u think is best for ur child.

Some parents use baby cribs for their baby, some prefer to sleep in same bed, some prefer to use baby carrier, some prefer to use stroller, some prefer to use hard love on their child, some use reverse psychology.

For whatever reason, u know ur child best. Do what u think is right. As long it does not bring nuisance to other people or bring harm to the child, just do it

before kid i was anti-leash like TS. same like TS, i thought. wah like an animal. im so good. see me take care of my 2 nieces no issue pun.

after having my own kid, im now pro-leash.

not because i takut hilang. leash no leash, will hilang if that is fate. same like the lady last time just push her aside and kidnap her child. so TS idea of properly jaga and watch the kid is flawed.

For my boy, sometimes he will not let you hold his hand (if force to hold, he will pull pull and golek sini sana try to get free like MMA, prone to injury), not sit in the stroller without crying till cant breathe, or wont move and will squat down there till you let his hand go.

after we put the leash on his bag, he feels free to lari sini sana within reason, no one holding his hands so he feels better, and he wont just be upset and squat down or cry in the stroller. normally we use it very rarely, but its there just in case on some of those bad days.

again

doesnt matter

example

u ask me, "u pernah have sex?"

i say "yes"

whether i did it with my wife or your wife,dont matter

i had sex


the action is the determining factor,

not who i done it with

True dat. Nowadays most parents conceive their kids for status and attention only. Fuck with parenthood and shit. Bising sikit throw ipad at them. Most of their mindset is on "I have kids, I can boast to my friends I am stable, can afford offsprings, then can get them to be all over me to praise me of being super mum and shit"

Of course it matters. Sex with wife halal. Sex with ayam haram.

Bodo tahap dewa

Butthurt in denial mode....

I was like TS when i was single, I thought those parents are cruel for leashing their kids. But as a parent now, i totally understand, especially in the current world we live in. The leash is a deterrent/safe guard, especially for hyper active kids who are hard to control.

Losing my child would be worse than losing all of my other loved ones combined.

posting in escalated tered